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Whats going on with Muslims who call themselves Muslims but then when it comes to talking to women they're really dirty minded? Do Muslim guys actually lower their gaze?

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exposing sins, is a sin yo'
Original post by Noorals
Whats going on with Muslims who call themselves Muslims but then when it comes to talking to women they're really dirty minded? Do Muslim guys actually lower their gaze?

Thanks :smile:


They tell you the first look is halal so they can get away with it LOL

Jks there are some good boys who do lower their gaze, some don't but that's for god to judge their intention
YOLO
You only look once :wink:
having a dirty mind its pretty common in this century... media is the main role behind it... Bollywood and Hollywood are both messing up people's mind by showing nudes and intimate scenes... brain is pretty complex thing in our body and it doesnt work by being a muslim :u:
Sexual frustration. sex slavery is outlawed in many Muslim countries, apart from Isis caliphate and BFs/GFs and masturbations are haram, and marriage (especially arranged or early) and the daunting cost and commitment required and the Quranic verses of virgins with voluptuous breasts. This can create one sex starved/frustrated person with nothing but sex on his mind.
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Original post by RosyPearl
They tell you the first look is halal so they can get away with it LOL

Jks there are some good boys who do lower their gaze, some don't but that's for god to judge their intention


haha! yeah thats true i guess
Damn, I hope I'm not like that.
Original post by Anonymous
Sexual frustration. sex slavery is outlawed in many Muslim countries, apart from Isis caliphate and BFs/GFs and masturbations are haram, and marriage (especially arranged or early) and the daunting cost and commitment required and the Quranic verses of virgins with voluptuous breasts. This can create one sex starved/frustrated person with nothing but sex on his mind.


Islam has solution to this, it's called temporary marriage. It can be a period of getting to know a girl prior to marriage or having a halal gf
Double standards
Original post by Anonymous
Islam has solution to this, it's called temporary marriage. It can be a period of getting to know a girl prior to marriage or having a halal gf


but a mahram has to be present, no such thing as a "temporary marriage" nikah or nothing
Ye and whats with these weird ass posts.
Original post by Anonymous
Islam has solution to this, it's called temporary marriage. It can be a period of getting to know a girl prior to marriage or having a halal gf


Ah yes temporary marriage usually associated with Shias, though there are forms of temporary marriage contracts in sunni Islam. but yeah, it's very controversial and most Muslims seem to avoid it.
Original post by Anonymous
Ah yes temporary marriage usually associated with Shias, though there are forms of temporary marriage contracts in sunni Islam. but yeah, it's very controversial and most Muslims seem to avoid it.


Yeah but why avoid it when Allah made it halal and there is no other choice? Better do that than fornicate. Who cares what people think, as long as you're not sinning in the eyes of God.
Original post by Anonymous
Yeah but why avoid it when Allah made it halal and there is no other choice? Better do that than fornicate. Who cares what people think, as long as you're not sinning in the eyes of God.


Not sure why, i guess anything that brings controversy and scrutiny from conservative clerics, is to be avoided, especially when you consider such clerics can influence others to look suspiciously upon one, at the very extreme cases dish out takfir and hate. Also most Muslims don't really know what temporary marriages are and the procedure, i guess it's all too stifling and unnecessary, when you they can go down the easier route of Bf/Gf, especially now that some Muslims don't view premarital relationships to be wrong, but rather view something Islamic such as sex slavery or temporary marriage with suspicion.
well as a Muslim You only live once, do you want to waste this life? Make the most of what we have
Original post by Anonymous
Not sure why, i guess anything that brings controversy and scrutiny from conservative clerics, is to be avoided, especially when you consider such clerics can influence others to look suspiciously upon one, at the very extreme cases dish out takfir and hate. Also most Muslims don't really know what temporary marriages are and the procedure, i guess it's all too stifling and unnecessary, when you they can go down the easier route of Bf/Gf, especially now that some Muslims don't view premarital relationships to be wrong, but rather view something Islamic such as sex slavery or temporary marriage with suspicion.


Expand? This is Islamic?
Original post by Anonymous
Expand? This is Islamic?


Well according to conservative Muslims one can bur or capture a female prisoner as a slave and have sex with her. But most Muslims tend to look down on slavery nor are most salafists.

https://islamqa.info/en/20085
Original post by Anonymous
Well according to conservative Muslims one can bur or capture a female prisoner as a slave and have sex with her. But most Muslims tend to look down on slavery nor are most salafists.

https://islamqa.info/en/20085


Pretty disgraceful tbh. And that's being said as a Muslim person myself. Might need to look more into it at some time.
its funny cos muslim men expect muslim women to be amazingly religious but are disgusting themselves. obviously this cant be generalised.

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