My boyfriend is really shy..... opinions ??? boys???

Original post by anonomon

My boyfriend seems really confident when he's with his mates and in text but in person he's acctually quite shy for example in text he always brings up the convo of doing .....stuff.... and I have been to his house when his parents arnt in but he doesn't even kiss me .... he made a comment in person ONCE " next time we will do stuff though right" and I was like " yeah " ......
I honestly dont know why he never makes a move and that but he keeps talking about it .....
Any opinions???
Boys what r ur opinions???

You will most likely have to make the next move

Reply 2

OP

How!????
I think id be a bit akward cause I've never kissed any1!!!???
He only talks about it but never does it !!

Reply 3

DanteTheDoorKnob

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Wimp, possibly gay, almost certainly inexperienced, maybe has anxiety about not doing a good job.

Reply 4

chikane

Just grab him and give him a snog

Reply 5

math42

Do you reciprocate/encourage his talking about it? He might not be sure what exactly you want, with his mentions being an attempt to deduce that. Obviously I do not speak for any guy but myself, but even as a very shy person myself, if I'm sure I'm good to go, I'm going...I'd recommend just asking about it, or you could try making the first move yourself since his words imply he's up for it.

Original post by anonomon

My boyfriend seems really confident when he's with his mates and in text but in person he's acctually quite shy for example in text he always brings up the convo of doing .....stuff.... and I have been to his house when his parents arnt in but he doesn't even kiss me .... he made a comment in person ONCE " next time we will do stuff though right" and I was like " yeah " ......I honestly dont know why he never makes a move and that but he keeps talking about it .....Any opinions???Boys what r ur opinions???

Reply 6

Abolant

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Dump him. The sex won't be good so whats the point.....

Reply 7

OP

Original post by 1 8 13 20 42

Do you reciprocate/encourage his talking about it? He might not be sure what exactly you want, with his mentions being an attempt to deduce that. Obviously I do not speak for any guy but myself, but even as a very shy person myself, if I'm sure I'm good to go, I'm going...I'd recommend just asking about it, or you could try making the first move yourself since his words imply he's up for it.

Yeah I'm pretty sure i encourage him..... but wouldn't it be a bit akward if I just randomly lean in 4 a kiss???

Reply 8

DanteTheDoorKnob

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Original post by anonomon

Yeah I'm pretty sure i encourage him..... but wouldn't it be a bit akward if I just randomly lean in 4 a kiss???

Kiss is tame, you could get him a bit drunk first to lighten the mood :lol:

Reply 9

ODES_PDES

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Original post by anonomon

My boyfriend seems really confident when he's with his mates and in text but in person he's acctually quite shy for example in text he always brings up the convo of doing .....stuff.... and I have been to his house when his parents arnt in but he doesn't even kiss me .... he made a comment in person ONCE " next time we will do stuff though right" and I was like " yeah " ......
I honestly dont know why he never makes a move and that but he keeps talking about it .....
Any opinions???
Boys what r ur opinions???

Some people put up a front

Reply 10

math42

Original post by anonomon

Yeah I'm pretty sure i encourage him..... but wouldn't it be a bit akward if I just randomly lean in 4 a kiss???

Do you cuddle? If you're just sitting next to each other or whatever with minimal physical contact, maybe it would be a bit awkward (although I'd wager most guys would be okay with it nevertheless..). But if you're close to him, you can move your face close to his and make it obvious what you want to do I guess.

Reply 11

Tinemither

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Original post by anonomon

My boyfriend seems really confident when he's with his mates and in text but in person he's acctually quite shy for example in text he always brings up the convo of doing .....stuff.... and I have been to his house when his parents arnt in but he doesn't even kiss me .... he made a comment in person ONCE " next time we will do stuff though right" and I was like " yeah " ......
I honestly dont know why he never makes a move and that but he keeps talking about it .....
Any opinions???
Boys what r ur opinions???

Make it cute af. If you have to make the first move, cuddle him. Put your head in his neck and play with him (not sexually). Make sure that you eventually meet his gaze, whether that means you end up pushing him backwards and lay on top of him. But meet his gaze, and if your faces are close enough you should want to kiss him, and he will feel the same. Kiss him. Job's done.

I have these dreams of getting that stuff over and done with, but singularity is lame

Reply 12

OP

Original post by DanteTheDoorKnob

Kiss is tame, you could get him a bit drunk first to lighten the mood :lol:

In text He talks bout other stuff as well but I cant just randomly pull his trousers down.....

Reply 13

DanteTheDoorKnob

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Original post by anonomon

In text He talks bout other stuff as well but I cant just randomly pull his trousers down.....

Why not

You girls really underestimate your skills... Such wasted talent.

Reply 14

OP

Soooo next time were close I'll just lean in a bit .... :smile:

any tips???

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