How old were you when you lost your virginity?

Considering I'm the one who had sex, I think I would know whether either of us were abused or not and we weren't. It was the typical story of children entering puberty, getting horny and having sex, no abuse involved at all.

I always feel like these posts are problematic. I was abused from age 3. As far as I can remember a penis didn't penetrate my vagina until age 10.

My "virginity" though. I didn't really lose that until I was 23/4. This was the first time I felt able to fully, willingly and soberly engage in sex. I consider that losing my virginity. I'm still with that man and he's just amazing.

I was really grateful to come across the concept of defining virginity for myself in a way that looks beyond the hymen and penetration. We traditionally see it as penis in vagina but it needs redefining for gay people if we focus solely on an act. So the idea that virginity is about consensual offering of yourself - in a way that actually honours yourself and acknowledges your vulnerability. I like this concept way more and it breeds respect - of yourself and from others because it places value on yourself

Wow this is pretty deep. Are you sure you feel comfortable sharing this on here?

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How big was his willy?

Hi, thanks for asking in my day job, I talk about my history to help train therapists and people who work with young people or abuse survivors so I'm okay with people knowing about it.

I also remember being a teenager and feeling uncomfortable whenever this topic of virginity came up. So I wanted to share the concept of deciding what virginity means to us, in case anyone is lurking and might need to hear it. So far, I've had nothing but a positive experience of disclosing my past on here. I mean, touch wood it stays that way but most people are inherently good

Wtf is wrong with you? That is a very inappropriate question!

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How big was his willy?

Not lost it...yet