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Would you sleep with someone who is in a relationship?

So this guy I know is on a 'break' and he is really attractive, is it ok to have sex with him? would you sleep with someone who you knew had a girlfriend?

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Reply 1

chikane

If he is on a break surely that means he has split from his girlfriend and won't be going back to her?
If he is then have some self respect you would be his bit on the side and he will pick his gf over you each time once you have developed deeper feelings for him.

I wouldn't because i would not like the same happening to me i would rather they were single before jumping into bed with them.

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 2

Rum Ham

No I wouldn't sleep with anyone who was on a break or was in a full on relationship with someone. I would only sleep with someone who was in a fully committed relationship to me and only me.

Reply 3

dean01234

WE WERE ON A BREAK!!!

Yeah I'd say its okay, if you don't know the girl then its not like you owe her anything. Tbh I don't think sleeping with someone who you know is in a relationship is that bad if you're not the one initiating

Reply 4

Drunk Punx

No point in being a homewrecker.

Reply 5

GaelicBolshevik

Original post by Anonymous

So this guy I know is on a 'break' and he is really attractive, is it ok to have sex with him? would you sleep with someone who you knew had a girlfriend?

If I were you, yeah, you won't be the one in trouble if she decides they don't want to be on a break anymore.
See Friends season 3.

Reply 6

999tigger

Only if they were in that relationship with me.

yeah idc lol

I hate to admit this, but I have done and I completely and whole-heartedly regret it. The person I slept with had been sleeping with other people too, however when I asked about her boyfriend, she just said that he's fine with it as long as she's sleeping with girls. and not guys...so it was somewhat of a weird situation :s-smilie:

Reply 9

It's****ingWOODY

Nope, scummy thing to do IMO. Might surprise some people when I say that I do actually have morals :lol:

Reply 10

squeakysquirrel

Original post by Anonymous

So this guy I know is on a 'break' and he is really attractive, is it ok to have sex with him? would you sleep with someone who you knew had a girlfriend?

Why is it called "sleeping" - when that is not what you do.....

Reply 11

ODES_PDES

Original post by squeakysquirrel

Why is it called "sleeping" - when that is not what you do.....

Reply 12

Coloured_Flame

Original post by Anonymous

So this guy I know is on a 'break' and he is really attractive, is it ok to have sex with him? would you sleep with someone who you knew had a girlfriend?

If they wanted to get back together and you had intercourse with him it would be quite awkward for them later on but hey ho no reason not to

Reply 13

Zarek

I think the main onus is on the person in the relationship to be faithful and all is fair in love and war for single folk. But I'd draw the line at marriage breaking.

Reply 14

~Tara~

Why do you want to sleep with someone that is unavailable? Being on a break isn't just a little holiday where you get to f- whomever and then go back to your partner. I wouldn't get in the middle of that.

Think your energy would be better spent sleeping with someone you could trust because if you meet via an affair you're never going to trust them.

Reply 15

Anonymous #3

guys there was literally a whole episode of Friends on why sex with other people during a break isn't allowed

Reply 16

Anonymous #4

Original post by Drunk Punx

No point in being a homewrecker.

Judgemental ass.

Reply 17

Anonymous #4

OP, I think you should rephrase the question as "would you sleep with someone who is on a 'break'?"

Reply 18

Darien91

I have done a few times.. not proud

Reply 19

Drunk Punx

Original post by Anonymous

Judgemental ass.

Whilst it's true that the accusation of cheating is generally only levied at people who are in relationship, it doesn't make the person who's encouraging the person in the relationship to cheat any less immoral. Takes two to tango, y'know?

So do I judge people who do that? ****ing right I do, as encouraging someone to do something so selfish and ill-considered that it will make someone else suffer emotionally and mentally for it as a result is a downright dick move.

Ergo, homewrecker.

You're a pussy for hiding behind anon by the way :fyi: