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Do you delete 'nudes' ?

Reply 80

Josb

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Original post by TheGreatImposter

What a stupid analogy...

Many guys think like that though.

Reply 81

ServantOfMorgoth

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Original post by Cool.nerd

By that none of his business logic, how can he know she's not cheating? You must be into open relationships and if you are cool but don't like misinterpret fidelity.

No, he's supposed to trust her and worry that she's cheating. She's her own boss and if she decides to cheat then you will deal with things from there but it's none of his business what she keeps on her phone. I'm not into open relationships but I respect my partner enough to trust them and give them the benefit of the doubt and not be insecure at all times.

Reply 82

ServantOfMorgoth

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Original post by urbanlocations

As a male myself... I hate males for asking for nudes as 98 percent of them save them and then post them on the internet.

I am the 2 percent that don't. Find it horrible and disgusting and I hate males that re-post nudes whatever happens.

I've never posted any nudes and I have TONS.

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Reply 83

ServantOfMorgoth

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Original post by lucy_98

you're scum if you keep them

Ok then?

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Reply 84

Charlotte's Web

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I just tend to hoard my own nudes, is that weird? :shy2:

Reply 85

Cool.nerd

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Original post by ServantOfMorgoth

No, he's supposed to trust her and worry that she's cheating. She's her own boss and if she decides to cheat then you will deal with things from there but it's none of his business what she keeps on her phone. I'm not into open relationships but I respect my partner enough to trust them and give them the benefit of the doubt and not be insecure at all times.

Weird when insecurity is confused for not wanting to be cheated on and played for a fool but ok

Reply 86

Cool.nerd

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Original post by Charlotte49

I just tend to hoard my own nudes, is that weird? :shy2:

Lol I used to do this. #Narcissist

Reply 87

Charlotte's Web

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Original post by Cool.nerd

Lol I used to do this. #Narcissist

It's just a lot easier to delete other peoples' nudes than my own. I think I may have a problem... :mmm:

Reply 88

Dinasaurus

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I did like as soon as I broke up with my gf, I wouldn't find it fair to be in her position and be in an awkward position with somebody who has that sort of leverage over someone else. Even if you were trusted not to spread them, it's still a bit odd and one would probably assume that if you're no longer close, you'd no longer be expected to have them.

Reply 89

urbanlocations

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Original post by ServantOfMorgoth

I've never posted any nudes and I have TONS.

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Yeah but you have them stored which is wrong.

Reply 90

ServantOfMorgoth

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Original post by Cool.nerd

Weird when insecurity is confused for not wanting to be cheated on and played for a fool but ok

That is the definition of insecurity right there my boy.

Reply 91

ServantOfMorgoth

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Original post by urbanlocations

Yeah but you have them stored which is wrong.

Why? They sent them to me. How is it wrong? It's not like I stole them. Strangers can't get into my phone.

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Reply 92

Cool.nerd

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Original post by ServantOfMorgoth

That is the definition of insecurity right there my boy.

The definition of insecurity is staying with someone who looks at other people's photos and convincing yourself it's normal so you won't be single and cry yourself to sleep every night.

Reply 93

Squishy•

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Original post by alkaline.

keep them if they're good

Good representation of Islam! Thanks

Reply 94

urbanlocations

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Original post by ServantOfMorgoth

Why? They sent them to me. How is it wrong? It's not like I stole them. Strangers can't get into my phone.

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I just think it's wrong. Also you cannot guarantee that.

Your phone breaks... you bring it into repair... OH LOOK Muhammad has all your pictures.

Reply 95

ServantOfMorgoth

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Original post by Cool.nerd

The definition of insecurity is staying with someone who looks at other people's photos and convincing yourself it's normal so you won't be single and cry yourself to sleep every night.

I never said that if I knew I would turn a blind eye. I'm saying I'm not going to be snooping around looking for evidence of cheating.

Reply 96

ServantOfMorgoth

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Original post by urbanlocations

I just think it's wrong. Also you cannot guarantee that.

Your phone breaks... you bring it into repair... OH LOOK Muhammad has all your pictures.

Phone breaks I get a new one. When my tablet broke I got a new one. Was mad I lost all my good nudes though 😏

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Reply 97

SMEGGGY

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Original post by ThePunisher

I have a few files of them on my computer, anyway I'm in a relationship so have been debating whether or not to delete them recently. I don't think the people who sent them would be bothered but where do I stand from a moral point of view. My GF doesn't know I have them, not something I think would make a good conversation. I do sometimes look at them.