My dad just asked if I wanted to get engaged to a girl in a picture

Who hurt you bro?

bruh just wait for the right girl to come along who is not a ***** what ever that was meant to be

innit lemme sort her out fam

No I'm not open to have one lol. I meant I don't have anything against anyone that would be open to have one - some people (like that asif) haven't got a choice after they've been rejected so many times #shotsfired.

I agree. Getting to know the real personality of a person takes time. For me, my way of thinking in general is different to most people's so there's no way I could take any steps without knowing the person properly

@asif007 I'm joking btw lol. Just messing with you

Seriously why are ppl acting if arranged marriages are the end of the world.
Believe it or not there are actually successful arranged marriages. Yes shock horror.
Srsly people grow up.

Arranged Marriages is a big no no to me lol & no anon they don't always work out and in some of the cases that they do as you say it's then called a "Stroke Of Luck" usually successful ones happen if the guy knows the girl well enough or vice versa.
Its my opinion and not everyone has to agree

Was she actually fit?

Why does everyone keep asking me this? Use your imagination.



Pigs will fly and the sun will shine out of my arse if a decent girl comes along.



You might have to spend a while sorting out lots of girls.



Bro, relationships are actually a sensitive issue for some of us. I'm sure you can work out for yourself that I would rather spend the rest of my life alone instead of having an arranged marriage. Make fun all you want but unless I find someone for myself it ain't happening.

Put it this way: your affinity for an arranged marriage depends on how much you trust your parents to find the right person for you. Studies have shown that parents are most likely to choose someone with similar personality traits to themselves as potential suitors for their children. My mum can be a ***** sometimes, even the smallest thing can set her off and she will have a go at me for trivial things - so obviously that puts me off anyone she tries to choose for me and I can't trust her with that kind of responsbility. Not to mention that girls change a lot after marriage - they let themselves go, they stop being innocent and they just ***** about everything. Why would I want any of that BS when I can live my life without any of those worries and **** all the girls I want? Food for thought.

LMAO

Seriously, though, my dad doesn't even know anything about her. He said he wasn't sure how old she was, she estimated around my age. He also had no idea whether she was single or not. Just showed me her to see if I liked her, which was the most unnerving bit.

"No, but they might be like their ancestors. You have to go for someone with a history of a high status, like one your father's family has."

Lol soo true. My parents told me noone will marry me if I don't have a degree and noone will respect me, even if I don't end up working after marriage I still have to go uni. Also they want a well educated husband for me with a good job.

Asian parents care more about family image than ancient Scottish Highland clans smh

Don't make judgements on 'Asians' based on what you're told on TSR.

The truth is that this forum is far from representative, is prone to exaggerations/BS, and you also find significant variation from one Asian community to the next.

Honestly none of my recently married relatives even married a Sikh and nobody cared.

Maybe it's your dad who wants a piece of her

Asian parents care more about family image than ancient Scottish Highland clans smh

It was meant to be a light-hearted comment, sorry

Wow, dude. You carry around a lot of damage. Let it go.

I'll carry it around if I want, thank you very much. I have no problem admitting that I'm damaged goods.

That's heavy man. Let the love in.