Obviously not. Men do not respect a women who cannot respect herself. We do not value someone who does not value themselves, its not possible. If we know you sleep around, thats all we will see you as.
I think that's true if it's just to have sex but I think it's different when it comes to looking for a relationship.
I think the way most guys look at it has been said really. If you want another way to look at it: if a key opens multiple locks it's a master key, if a lock is opened by lots of keys it's a crappy lock.
But I don't understand why it's unattractive? It not like it affects your sex like in anyway, infact it probably makes it better, no?
Why is it unattractive?
Simple. Most lads want a classy girl. So if she has been with a lot of lads that wont help that image. Getting a girl that everyone can have is hardly a great thing. Its associated with a certain stereotype. If shes doesnt boast about it, its less of a problem.
For me the same goes for lads. No one likes the guy who boasts about how much sex hes getting. And if hes with everyone hardly makes him very desirable. It works both ways. Women just seem to care less.
Realistically though how many average women have that many sexual partners? Unless they are an escort or a nympho?
Why is it different for men though? People need to just calm down with this double standards ****. As long as nobody is carrying around STD's, ruining marriages/relationships or doing anything illegal who cares if a man or woman has had 2, 20 or 200 sexual partners? If that turns you off, or you don't find people like that "relationship/marriage material" then who cares? Because not everyone on this planet wants a serious relationship or even marriage. So it really shouldn't bother you how many people a woman has slept with.
In my experience it's quite accurate that the girls who are less attractive sleep around more. Based on my own opinions the less attractive girls I know have slept with a lot more people than the hottest girls I know.
I think the person meant sleeping around is an unattractive part of someone rather than meaning if she sleeps around she's probably munted
Simple. Most lads want a classy girl. So if she has been with a lot of lads that wont help that image. Getting a girl that everyone can have is hardly a great thing. Its associated with a certain stereotype. If shes doesnt boast about it, its less of a problem.
For me the same goes for lads. No one likes the guy who boasts about how much sex hes getting. And if hes with everyone hardly makes him very desirable. It works both ways. Women just seem to care less.
Or maybe it's a form of empowerment and it's not about "everyone having her" it's more of HER being able to have whoever SHE wants, and I don't see what's wrong about that at all.
If she doesn't boast about it, and simply shares it upon answering a question it shouldn't be a problem AT ALL.
I personally like my milk fresh, its like multiple ppl have drank it and regurgitated it back in the bottle for the other expecting lad to have a drink.
insecure hahahahah. Women are the most insecure, hating their bodies, won't let their partners see their face without makeup until 1 year into relationship, sleeping with a lot of men to put to ease her insecurities.