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Original post by Anonymous
I don't mind girls who sleep around because I sleep around myself. I'm of an age where my relationships tend to be strictly for fun, so providing the girl has no STIs/Ds and picks my fancy then I'm happy. It's sometimes a plus as she knows what she's doing, too.

I'm not saying I go with every girl who sleeps around as like many lads, some are desperate. I just don't mind a girl who does sleep around.


Original post by Novascope
Realistically though how many average women have that many sexual partners? Unless they are an escort or a nympho?

Why is it different for men though? People need to just calm down with this double standards ****. As long as nobody is carrying around STD's, ruining marriages/relationships or doing anything illegal who cares if a man or woman has had 2, 20 or 200 sexual partners? If that turns you off, or you don't find people like that "relationship/marriage material" then who cares? Because not everyone on this planet wants a serious relationship or even marriage. So it really shouldn't bother you how many people a woman has slept with.


You would just get looked down upon.
Its not equal, to get sex as a man is much harder to get sex as a woman clearly.
Original post by Novascope
But who are you to tell people they shouldn't do what they want to do? Now that's a poor argument.

You're only 16 anyway so that's laughable. I doubt anyone here was talking about people who have just become legal to have sex anyway.


So you're not aware that quite an amount of people(not including me) have underage sex? Seems like you're in for a surprise.
Original post by Fenugreek
Obviously not.
Men do not respect a women who cannot respect herself.
We do not value someone who does not value themselves, its not possible.
If we know you sleep around, thats all we will see you as.


Having sex doesn't mean you don't respect yourself ?
Original post by loveleest
?? You do know girls lie about how many people they have slept with. There is literally no way of finding out.


You do know some mothers lie to their children about who their real dad is?


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Original post by loveleest
?? If she is inexperienced in sex (which virgins obvs are) then guys would say she is boring and timid because she must be scared to try out "interesting" things in bed.


That's something you've come up with in your head, attributed to your perception of the straight male thought process and then claimed guys are sexist because of it.
If you ever watched Friends, it's like that episode where Phoebe hates Ross because of something she dreamt he did.

I myself am living proof of that being untrue. That's not how I think at all. Again, find me proof that that's what men think.

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Original post by Novascope
But who are you to tell people they shouldn't do what they want to do? Now that's a poor argument.

You're only 16 anyway so that's laughable. I doubt anyone here was talking about people who have just become legal to have sex anyway.
She can do what she likes, its more her attitude to it that will put me off. If shes too public about it all and say for example got up to too much publicly in a nightclub ofc id be put off as thats not my taste.

Its not an issue unless they boast/are too public about it.
Original post by Mayhem™
So you're not aware that quite an amount of people(not including me) have underage sex? Seems like you're in for a surprise.


I do know that. But come on, as I said I HIGHLY doubt anyone here was talking about people underage or just about legal to have sex.

Nobody cares for the opinion of kids when it comes to their sex choices anyway. So like I also said before, just because you wouldn't sleep around doesn't mean it's wrong for any other adult to do so. If it's causing no harm to anyone in any sort of way, whoooo carrresssss :colonhash:
Original post by Mayhem™
That's a poor argument to make, I could probably 'pull' more than half of the girls my I age - but I choose not to because I have decency.

However using myself as an example isn't the best thing to do, but the point still stand with most men/women.
Just because you can, doesn't mean you should.


So because you make one choice that's the correct one and everyone should follow suit?
Original post by Fenugreek
You would just get looked down upon.
Its not equal, to get sex as a man is much harder to get sex as a woman clearly.


Is this the 1800s? No it's not harder for a man to get sex ffs lol. People can find sex anywhere these days. So yes it is equal.
Original post by Eternalflames
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I was listening to this Mayhem yesterday :tongue:


Damme that's some next level mayhem.

But this one comes with part of your username.



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Original post by Underscore__
You do know some mothers lie to their children about who their real dad is?


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Yeah and what is your point wtf?
I just said that girls lie about the number of sexual partners.
Original post by Fenugreek
As bad as her in what way mate, can you even explain yourself?
You're starting to annoy me with this nonsense that makes no sense.


In her ignorance she categorised the entire male population as sexist and insecure.
Then you did the exact same thing but with women
Original post by Fenugreek
insecure hahahahah.Women are the most insecure, hating their bodies, won't let their partners see their face without makeup until 1 year into relationship, sleeping with a lot of men to put to ease her insecurities.

Just as ignorant as she is. You'd make a cute couple :h:

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Original post by Mayhem™
Oh so because I'm 16 I can't have a say on this? do share more of your wisdom


You can have your opinion, I'm not taking that away from you. It was just the hilarious manner that you went about it.
Original post by Novascope
Is this the 1800s? No it's not harder for a man to get sex ffs lol. People can find sex anywhere these days. So yes it is equal.


If a woman decently attractive wanted sex on the spot, she could get it.
This is not the same for men. Point proven.
Original post by BhagwanNoBhool
In her ignorance she categorised the entire male population as sexist and insecure.
Then you did the exact same thing but with women

Just as ignorant as she is. You'd make a cute couple :h:

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I never said all ffs. I said most :toofunny:
Original post by loveleest
?? If she is inexperienced in sex (which virgins obvs are) then guys would say she is boring and timid because she must be scared to try out "interesting" things in bed.


LOOOOOOOOL
maybe you were as a virgin, lol as if virgins don't wanna do freaky things. Alot of girls are due to religious reasons.
I'm only really interested in relationships that could potentially be long-term.

If someone sleeps around a lot, that implies a lack of willingness to commit to one person. Though everyone's going to want to settle down at some point, so it's not a dealbreaker :cute:
Original post by Fenugreek
If a woman decently attractive wanted sex on the spot, she could get it.
This is not the same for men. Point proven.


This is just ********.
Generally, it's easier for confident/attractive people to get sex, it doesn't matter what their gender is.
Original post by Fenugreek
If a woman decently attractive wanted sex on the spot, she could get it.
This is not the same for men. Point proven.


Yes it is lool. Are you saying this speaking from personal experience or something? There are MANY men in this big ass world who'd get it on the spot. Give it up. You're speaking as if there are no extremely attractive men around.
Original post by Fenugreek
If a woman decently attractive wanted sex on the spot, she could get it.
This is not the same for men. Point proven.


You've proven nothing. You haven't shown any of those things to be true.

You also specified a decently attractive woman, so you're moving even further from the point really...

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