Idk if it it, all i can say from personal experience is that i can't like men, no matter how hard i try (yes i have stared at them for long periods ) something just won't click and i doubt it ever will, women on the other hand are just so attractive and well frankly i just love them . As far as i'm aware i didn't choose that and tbh it would be far easier if i just liked men but that seems impossible and i have therefore concluded that it isn't a choice because if it was then i would just like men i suppose technically anyone can have a partner with anyone and yeah they choose that but they certainly don't choose the attraction part. just what i think anyway not saying it is right x
Can be a choice to act on it - to enter into gay relationships, but the feelings are just there and can't be manufactured. And it's as difficult not to act on those feelings as it is for straight people to not act on theirs.
Its complex even as a gay person... you're attracted 50% to girls but not fully... and this is why people think its a choice. If your bisexual you have a choice though, majority go to straight but a few go gay side.
I think it largely a choice, I have met a few people who have gone from straight to full blown homosexual in about 2 years.
I can't really comment for sure but are you sure they were actually straight in the first place? for instance if i eventually 'come out' then people will think that of me because i have pretended for a very long time so as not to arouse suspicion i.e 'he's hot' so i would just nod in agreement or something bc that is what is expected when in reality i've known for about 3 years so idk i wouldn't just assume they were ever 'straight' unless they explicitly told you they thought they were. just my opinion though
I think it largely a choice, I have met a few people who have gone from straight to full blown homosexual in about 2 years.
Thats called gender fluid or confused. Its not a choice. If it was a choice so many people would not have committed suicide for being gay. Just the way a straight person is attracted to the opposite gender, same with homosexuals. You can't stop that feeling its not possible. You try falling in love with the same gender and you'll see its not possible at all!
Idk if it it, all i can say from personal experience is that i can't like men, no matter how hard i try (yes i have stared at them for long periods ) something just won't click and i doubt it ever will, women on the other hand are just so attractive and well frankly i just love them . As far as i'm aware i didn't choose that and tbh it would be far easier if i just liked men but that seems impossible and i have therefore concluded that it isn't a choice because if it was then i would just like men i suppose technically anyone can have a partner with anyone and yeah they choose that but they certainly don't choose the attraction part. just what i think anyway not saying it is right x
I feel like I've heard this story before. Do I know who you are?