I broke up with my boyfriend today AMA

MeggiiMae

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But why, though?

Are you free this Friday?

Reply 3

Rhythmical

Have you got cut all contact? And why did you break up? Did he cry?

Reply 4

ForestShadow

How did did it happen? Be as general as you like

Do you feel sad about it at all?

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||TheUnknown||

Original post by Rhythmical

Have you got cut all contact? And why did you break up? Did he cry?

Did he?

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RoadtoSuccess

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**** happens what can you do about it :borat:

Reply 7

ODES_PDES

Original post by MeggiiMae

I am sorry to hear that.

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MeggiiMae

Original post by BristolFresher15

But why, though?

Original post by Rhythmical

Have you got cut all contact? And why did you break up? Did he cry?

Original post by ForestShadow

How did it happen? Be as general as you like

Do you feel sad about it at all?

I'm currently studying Alevels, I feel that with everything else going on as well as my Alevels (voluntary work, my job, etc) I just can't give him the time he deserves. :/
I ended it today in person, I haven't cut off all contact at all, he is still my bestfriend of course. I didn't break up with him because I don't love him anymore, I just feel right now isn't the right time.
We both cried! Me more than him

Reply 9

MeggiiMae

Original post by ODES_PDES

I am sorry to hear that.

Thank you

Reply 10

BristolFresher15

Well that was an anti-climactic reason. You two will probably be back together by July, probably sooner. I'm unimpressed.

Reply 11

ForestShadow

Original post by MeggiiMae

I feel that with everything else going on as well as my Alevels (voluntary work, my job, etc) I just can't give him the time he deserves. :/

Not trying to start and argument or be negative but did you ever ask him if he was happy with the said smaller portion of time with you?

Is it possible he prefers little time with you in a relationship than not be in one at all. :s-smilie:

edit realised you said "there was possessiveness, jealousy and trust issues. I felt trapped."

why didnt you see this sooner? halo effect?

(when you see his looks and not his personality and were you doing anything that could cause his trust issues?)

Regardless, I wish you both the very best and much success in you A lvls

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 12

MeggiiMae

Original post by BristolFresher15

Well that was an anti-climatic reason. You two will probably be back together by July, probably sooner. I'm unimpressed.

Sorry I didn't impress, there were other reasons, his possessiveness, jealousy and trust issues. I felt trapped.

Reply 13

BristolFresher15

Original post by MeggiiMae

Sorry I didn't impress, there were other reasons, his possessiveness, jealousy and trust issues. I felt trapped.

Now I'm confused. Which one was it? Because if its the latter then I'm guessing you won't be getting back together.

Reply 14

MeggiiMae

Original post by ForestShadow

Regardless, I wish you both the very best and much success in you A lvls

I know he was happy but it just didn't feel fair to not be able to give him my attention more than the limited time I could.
I know what you mean though

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MeggiiMae

Original post by BristolFresher15

Now I'm confused. Which one was it? Because if its the latter then I'm guessing you won't be getting back together.

A combination of all of it.

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Rhythmical

Original post by MeggiiMae

Aw, it is perfectly reasonable for you to do that. A Levels are stressful and you are brave for taking this step. How long were you together for?

Original post by ||TheUnknown||

Did he?

Curiosity got the better of you :tongue:

Reply 17

MeggiiMae

Original post by Rhythmical

Aw, it is perfectly reasonable for you to do that. A Levels are stressful and you are brave for taking this step. How long were you together for?

Just over a year and a half.
I feel like I'm the bad person, and I suppose I am but I hope I'll benefit from it in the long run:/

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toronto353

Original post by Lord Samosa

Are you free this Friday?

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Rhythmical

Original post by MeggiiMae

Just over a year and a half.
I feel like I'm the bad person, and I suppose I am but I hope I'll benefit from it in the long run:/

At the end of the day, you're young and have your whole life ahead of you and A Levels are important and not easy at all. Just focus on yourself for now and try not to fall in the trap of being in contact with him at the moment.