Ex has written huge post about me and we haven't even spoken in 3 months?

Me and my ex broke up in Janurary, and have had no contact since the middle of February, my suggestion as she wanted to be friends and I wanted us to work things out, so we went no contact. We've never reached out to one another, directly or indirectly, we don't have any mutual friends on Facebook anymore and we were long distance so I don't see her face to face ever.

My friend last night alerted to me a post she'd put on hee Tumblr, a place where she regularly posts her thoughts and feelings. It was probably about 5 paragraphs long and basically spat complete and utter poison at me and our relationship together, with everything she describes it as being as is total rubbish. I got quite upset that she felt that way but i don't intend on contacting her about it. My question is, why? Why post something like that around 3/4 months after a breakup when you tell everyone in the post that you don't care? What's the point? It just doesn't really make any sense to me at all.

Have a look at this.

I found that it was somewhat accurate for me when I went through a breakup, though not all the things happened and not in a particular order.

Have a look at this.

I found that it was somewhat accurate for me when I went through a breakup, though not all the things happened and not in a particular order.

What stage would you suggest the meaning of this post is?

She sounds really immature tbh.
Id just ignore it and her and move on.

Something clearly made her seriously unhappy if she posted something like that!!!

How did the relationship end?
Did she seem happy towards the end of it?
Girls are confusing at times so i really dont know why she would do that unless she seriously hated the relationship you two had!

Maybe calling your ex's personal feelings about the relationship "utter rubbish" was part of the problem in the first place. You might not agree with it, but her perspective isn't any more or less valid than yours.

In the wise words of C K Lewis; "when someone tell you that you hurt them, you don't get to decide that you didn't."

Either way, that was her private blog which she uses to post her feelings as you already mentioned, it's quite likely that she didn't intend for you or your friend to have still been following or checking her tumblr, especially 3 months down the line, so it really shouldn't concern you.

My suggestion is that you just forget about it and move on with your own life, leave her to her feelings just like she's left you to yours. Relationships are a two way street and every break up happens for a reason, there's always two sides to the story. She has hers and you have yours.

Long story short we argued for a week or so during the beginning of the new year, New Year's Eve included. She was starting a new job at the beginning of Janurary which I was wholly supportive of and was really excited about her starting, obviously had a few worries here and there but brought them up with her because we were in a relationship where we told each other everything. I'd tell her, she kick off at me or whatever. Anyway one day during an argument she said to me "I don't care, career before personal life", I let it slide until the day my grandad was rushed into hospital. She sensed I wasn't in a good mood, but she wasn't really fond of my grandad so I asked her if she really wanted to know, just because cautious to avoid another argument and again she kicked off. I ended it there and then as a result. I had no right to tell her that her priorities are wrong at the end of the day.

She didn't seem to care when I ended it, first thing she said after was that she wanted the money I'd borrowed from her back (paid it back straight away).

To be honest she's a strange one, I don't even know how she felt half the time. 70% she didn't care and 30% she did. Which makes me question why she's so irate about it now?

With all due respect a social media channel like Tumblr is hardly private... She stalks my Twitter on the daily!

You haven't moved on if you're this hung up over it.

Neither has she, but it's a little hypocritical to be posting about it on a public forum. You have people on here calling her bitter, or an "attention seeker" for posting it, yet you're not much different. The main point is that her tumblr post shouldn't actually concern you. Does it affect your life in any way? Nope. You wouldn't have even known about it if your friend hadn't "alerted you". So what are you trying to accomplish?

The only person that can address your insecurity by telling you why she wrote what she did is your ex herself. Not a bunch of strangers on TSR. If you're really that upset about it then you should contact her to clear the air.
If your only aim was to have elevate yourself and have your feelings validated by having a bunch of strangers call her "horrible" or "childish" then fair enough.

Either way your ex's feelings about the relationship and break up are perfectly valid, just as yours are. You don't get to decide that how she felt was "utter rubbish" or poison.