Making a sexual move

There is this girl that I desire and we've been seeing each other (not dating) for a couple of months without much flirting (but she knows there is something there otherwise there is no reason to keep seeing her and doing stuff together) but we've got to know each other fairly well.

I am thinking of making a sexual move on her next week (not a sudden move but a gradual move leading to penetration if it doesn't stop before that). Is this wise or not? How would our relationship change after this given it ends on a positive note and given it ends on a negative note?

(edited 7 years ago)

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Reply 1

DanteTheDoorKnob

Brighton is a good choice

Reply 2

Ruhail25

Dont worry about it.. just go balls deep in them sugar walls

Reply 3

Eternalflames

Original post by Ruhail25

Dont worry about it.. just go balls deep in them sugar walls

That mushroom tip in dem sugar walls :rofl:

I love the Hodgetwins :lol:

Reply 4

Ruhail25

Original post by Eternalflames

That mushroom tip in dem sugar walls :rofl:

I love the Hodgetwins :lol:

Haha😂theyre so dopey but funny asf

Reply 5

ServantOfMorgoth

Original post by Eternalflames

That mushroom tip in dem sugar walls :rofl:

I love the Hodgetwins :lol:

What do you know about mushroom tips 😂

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Reply 6

Eternalflames

Original post by ServantOfMorgoth

What do you know about mushroom tips 😂

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Nothing, I've never seen one. But that's what the hodgetwins say

Reply 7

Eternalflames

Original post by Ruhail25

Haha😂theyre so dopey but funny asf

Yeah, I watch all 3 channels but they make me laugh so much. Even the weightlifting one, they make jokes about their meals too :lol:

Reply 8

~Tara~

Original post by zill1

You're being a bit too vague. The stuff you're already doing together..is this sexual or not?

Your sexual "move" could just be asking. You don't have to make consent difficult 🙄

OP is megavirgin

Original post by ~Tara~

You're being a bit too vague. The stuff you're already doing together..is this sexual or not?

No, not sexual.

Reply 11

zill1

Original post by Abstract_Prism

OP is megavirgin

Ok so?

Reply 12

~Tara~

Original post by zill1

No, not sexual.

So you're not dating or otherwise being sexual/flirting but this girl should somehow know that that's why you keep contact with her because why else would a guy treat a girl like a friend..

And you plan to grope until resistance yet somehow that's not creepy

You don't sound like you care about any kind of relationship with her. You're basically in it for the sexual part so what does it matter if she doesn't reciprocate? Either you have sex or you don't and you'll be formally released from your obligation of treating a girl like a human being in order to get sex.

Reply 13

zill1

Original post by ~Tara~

I think you are right. I should really "take her out" and talk things through. Maybe I just don't have enough loving feeling for her?

Reply 14

zill1

Thing is what I'm really after is some regular bonking but to do that I need to start the first one which is proving to be really difficult.

Reply 15

999tigger

From the way you described your approach, the negative outcome is it ends with the police and maybe crimewatch.

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Reply 16

username1208193

Original post by zill1

Thing is what I'm really after is some regular bonking but to do that I need to start the first one which is proving to be really difficult.

I really don't think you care about a relationship at all if all you want is 'regular bonking'. You're a COUPLE OF MONTHS into a relationship. Sure, what you want is fine but you're making consent so difficult. Just open up to her and see if she feels the same. Bit awkward if when you make a move, she completely rejects you.

Reply 17

Airmed

Original post by SubZero~

They're not in a relationship though. They are just friends currently and the OP expects to make a move and be willingly given sex.

OP have you even kissed this girl? Your first move on her is not going to result in sex. Talk to her first. It doesn't even sound like you like her personality, just only her looks.