I am so heartbroken - please HELP

I thought he was into me but we had a conversation on FB last night where he said that he used to like a girl (she has a boyfriend now) and that me and her are "as different as night and day". Apparently, unlike me, she's "is nice and doesn't want to be the center of male attention".

I admit that I've been a bit of a bitch to him sometimes but only because I found out some bad things about him. So I replied: "she is nice because she has never talked to you as much as I've done - she doesn't know you as well as I do, trust me, you can be very unpleasant sometimes".

I then added: "if you like her, you can't like me too then". He remained quiet.

At that point, I was pretty disappointed so I said: "Honestly I don't even know why we are still talking".

After just 1 second, he answered: "K, good bye then".

Me: "I'm off to bed".

Him: "Night".

I was very upset so I closed the convo saying: "Night dickhead".

I decided to block him.

Now, I don't know what to think. Have I been too harsh? Has he ever even liked me? :frown:

(edited 7 years ago)

Reply 1

999tigger

For it to work you have to be into each other. Sometimes you arent and then you are going to get disappointment. he was interested, but obviously not interested enough. Dont take it out on yourself and dont try and change. Your conversation just seems like bickering, nothing much, so its definitely not something to worry about or get heartbroken over. These things happen. Find someone else who is more compatible.

Reply 2

username944192

He doesn't sound that bothered. Why did you think he was into you?

Reply 3

Eralia

Original post by infairverona

He doesn't sound that bothered. Why did you think he was into you?

He used to flirt and tease me a lot. But maybe he acts the same with other girls when I'm not around? I don't know. Plus, a mutual friend told me that he fancied me (I say fancied cause that was 5 or 6 months ago) :redface:

Reply 4

thefatone

Original post by Eralia

wait a second how does that work?
You're an absolute paenus to him then you got heartbroken by what exactly? him not talking to you when you asked him to **** off?

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Reply 5

AhmedMA99

Once a wise man said "There is nothing that duct tape can't fix."
So I suggest you use some duct tape as it will help a lot!

Reply 6

gwagon

Wow. If this is what girls say to someone they like then a lot of girls who I've talked to must have been really into me!

Reply 7

M14B

Original post by AhmedMA99

Once a wise man said "There is nothing that duct tape can't fix."
So I suggest you use some duct tape as it will help a lot!

where can I get some?

Reply 8

RishiRich

Lmao. He doesn't have to like you, get over yourself please.

Reply 9

AhmedMA99

Original post by M14B

where can I get some?

At any convenience store near you. They usually cost £2.17

Reply 10

Wammio

Original post by Eralia

wow..more stupid **** that nobody cares about...

Reply 11

Charles III

Original post by Eralia

Hello!

First of all, I've moved this thread over to Relationships! :yay:

Secondly… I think this is a situation in which: 'you're both as bad as one another' applies. Sorry about your hard luck :console:

, but what you said wasn't exactly OK. Nor was his remark. It doesn't seem like he's into you, like others suggested. So I'd take it as it is and leave it at that. :yep: