Thank you for all of the responses. I'm on anon because I don't want anyone I know to see this or get messages about it, not because I'm trolling.
Since writing this, I've done some research, and I didn't know it was so common. I've always heard on the news and stuff about how f*cked it is and how it doesn't happen to many.
For me it isn't a BDSM, 50 shades of gray thing, it's more about the reluctance, not violence. So I guess, people above, talking about the reality (being beaten with a knife, etc,) then I wouldn't want it to happen. It has been interesting to read all responses though.
I actually feel like I would want to be the dominant one, as I'm more inclined towards male reluctance, even weirder? Is there a title for that kind of thing, or is it just classed as male submission?