Female, muslim, high sex drive - don't know what to do?!

There is also hymenoplasty surgery. I would only recommend it if a girl is really desperate because it costs loads.

Yup - still a sin. Although I do hear of people doing this, I wouldn't trust a guy because if he changed his mind I'd no longer be a virgin and a broken hymen and general looseness down there won't fool another guy. Plus I couldn't exactly lie about it either.

having a lot of sex won't make it super loose
it'll be looser than when you hadn't had sex but the same as after the first time.

I'd rather use a fake hymen (the prosthetic one...) though.... the thought of surgery down there is frightening!

spending a lot of money etc, some people literally can't get married because one side is asking for money or they feel like they have to spend loads on it and have a huge reception etc.

yes that is why you marry, idk why sex is being bought into those 3 things.

I agree, marrying requires WAY more trust than sex.

I guess, but after having sex once can you really just stop? honestly there is still a difference even if small, you can't even stick an index finger in a virgin vagina without pain (even when wet initially it does hurt unless it's like a baby finger) and that's what the difference is.

I think women shouldn't use either of these. The simple fact that there is a demand for this is sickening.

Okay that may be true but does this really make a difference to the guy? He wants his wife to feel pain for the first it time to make sure she is a virgin?

It's ridiculous.

cause we all want and value your opinion don't we.

that's a bit messed up, "wants his wife to feel pain" obviously not duh but it's inevitable no matter who does it so I don't really see your point.
Yes your point is ridiculous.

maybe he just wants to be the first one to go through it together, or just wants a wife who follows Islam? If he wants neither of these then obviously he shouldn't have a problem with virginity.

Yes I've heard, what do they take the blood out of you and then insert it in there...?

defo i haven't got my licence yet... its gonna years to get one though

I think women shouldn't use neither of these. The simple fact that there is a demand for this is sickening.

cause we all want and value your opinion don't we.

If you can't control yourself, then marriage is the next step for you (or if you're not ready you could always fast)

It was never this high even in my teens, and disappeared almost completely when I became anaemic, but recently it's shot up. Damn you iron tablets! I do 'relieve myself' but it's not always enough. (I'm a virgin btw). Maybe it's just exam stress idk, but it's making it difficult to concentrate when trying to revise

I guess, but after having sex once can you really just stop? honestly there is still a difference even if small, you can't even stick an index finger in a virgin vagina without pain (even when wet initially it does hurt unless it's like a baby finger) and that's what the difference is.

perhaps not everyone, but a good number of us do value his opinion

do you have anything useful to contribute to this thread ?

Um, not true. Many girls can break their hymens earlier on through activities such as horse riding, swimming, cycling, gymnastics. They're still virgins, but their hymens aren't that tight.

The pain I was referring to is regardless of hymen. Or maybe some girls are just less tight naturally and it doesn't hurt that much.