Early this year my boyfriend complained that my hair was a mess. At first he started by joking and saying have I just woke up etc and then he started saying that girls usually 'do their hair' regularly but I don't seem to bother. My mum always tells me about my hair getting too long (it's a bob/shoulder length lol) but I don't know how to style it, it's very messy/curly and looks limp when straightened. Someone at work who didn't like me said outright that I had crap hair (was unprovoked) but it didn't bother me, it's just hair. Anyway I few weeks ago I took the advice of my mum and had a short do which is much easier to deal with. But now my boyfriend doesn't like it and says that it doesn't look feminine. I'm sick of my hair, I wish I didn't have any at all, in fact I'd shave it all off if it was sociably acceptable. It just never looks like other girls hair maybe I don't know how to do it but yea I've just never seen it as part of me it just gets in the way. Should I just ignore my boyfriend or is hair meant to be more important than I see it as?