Muslims, if your child came out as gay?

Your beliefs are not relevant. If your child is harming no one and not breaking the law and is so happy, who are you to take that away from them and condemn them? Awful position for their blood to take.

I'm pretty sure they will care. Take it from somebody with personal experience.

Note: I am fully aware you said you won't stop them.

im sure at some point theyll realise they miss their daughter more than they want to listen to their imaginary friend

I will not condemn them but if they ask me, I will say that it goes against my beliefs and I cannot support it. But, of course, that is just my belief and they are allowed to believe and do what they want. I just will continue to hold my belief that it is wrong.

And you have every right to believe what you wanna believe

I would acc be so happy

Im not going into this big debate with people, its obviously well known the act of sexual contact with that of the same sex is a sin and prohibited, being gay isnt because thats merely thoughts and you arent sinned for thoughts.

Anyway you said you were muslim in another thread, how could you be happy if they did turn out gay? Especially knowing its a sin how could you possible be happy knowing that your child is committing a major sin.

Dont want trolls and everyone slating me and how im against gays, because it isnt any of my business what straights or gay people do, i was just curious why you would be happy if youre a muslim

Im not going into this big debate with people, its obviously well known the act of sexual contact with that of the same sex is a sin and prohibited, being gay isnt because thats merely thoughts and you arent sinned for thoughts.

Anyway you said you were muslim in another thread, how could you be happy if they did turn out gay? Especially knowing its a sin how could you possible be happy knowing that your child is committing a major sin.

Dont want trolls and everyone slating me and how im against gays, because it isnt any of my business what straights or gay people do, i was just curious why you would be happy if youre a muslim

Not all Muslims are against homosexuality, you can be an open minded Muslim.

People cherry pick religion all the time, even the most religious people probably don't even follow Islam 110%. So why does it matter?

They do not need "encouragement". It's love - it has no boundaries or need for encouragement.

I'm so glad I'm not Muslim anymore because when I was Muslim, I was the really homophobic and I don't even know what I would have did if my child was gay.

However, I do have a gay brother and my parents have said they can "cure homosexuality" (idiots). I know someone who came out to his parents as gay and they performed exorcism on him "to take the jinn out of him" ...lol.

Thats a really bad and poor point to make.... Last time i checked i dont follow what the "majority" of muslims would do, you use the Quran and teachings by the prophet pbuh. Just because some arent against it doesnt mean its acceptable the act of homosexuality is haraam, and its clear that its virtually impossible not to have sexual contact with someone who you like. This is explicitly clear. Like i said youre missing the big picture just because most dont follow everything to 110% because we make mistakes and sin its important not to fall into major sins, such as adultery murder etc, you cant just say "even the most religious people probably don't even follow Islam 110%", that doesnt make it ok.

You're seriously deluded. Either you're very young, naive, or both.

Thats a really bad and poor point to make.... Last time i checked i dont follow what the "majority" of muslims would do, you use the Quran and teachings by the prophet pbuh. Just because some arent against it doesnt mean its acceptable the act of homosexuality is haraam, and its clear that its virtually impossible not to have sexual contact with someone who you like. This is explicitly clear. Like i said youre missing the big picture just because most dont follow everything to 110% because we make mistakes and sin its important not to fall into major sins, such as adultery murder etc, you cant just say "even the most religious people probably don't even follow Islam 110%", that doesnt make it ok.

The point I was trying to make is that no one can judge if the person is Muslim or not because they decide they're ok with something that is considered haram in Islam.

You called them out because they stated they were Muslim but said they'd be happy if their child came out gay to them.

I'd be disappointed of course, but I'd try not to let it affect my relationship with them. They'd still be my son or daughter, so I'll just pretend they're not.

If they want a partner though, then they can do that after they move out.