Muslims, if your child came out as gay?

You can continue to isolate Gay Muslims by telling them that there is something wrong with them, but in the end you will only succeed in driving them away from your religion. Maybe it's for the best, they will finally be free from an ideology that makes its adherents live in guilt and shame.

"called him out"... I literally said i was "curious"to know at the end, didnt call anyone out and i even said it doesnt concern me whether people are straight or gay, i just wanted to know why a muslim was "happy".
Really dont understand what youre even doing, you keep changing your point, it wasnt about judging anyone, a sin is a sin you can still be an alcholoic and be a muslim, because its about the act of being a muslim not just the label, so again nothing to do with judging. Everyone commits sin even muslims, by that logic no one would be a muslim then.

Sorry for saying "called him out" then.

How did I change my point?

I first stated that there were open minded Muslims and Muslims who did not follow Islam fully (but were all still Muslim).

I then stated saying they were a Muslim who was fine with homosexuality and it doesn't matter if they are or aren't for homosexuality (but still can be Muslim).

I may have misunderstood your post, so I apologise. However, to me it like you were outraged they were Muslim ]and okay with homosexuality.

Comprehension... Where did i say there was something wrong with them... I said in my first point it doesnt concern me wheteher a persons straight or not, thats their decision and from a muslim perspective which is what the QUESTION is regarding, its clear that thats between God and the person.

Im not driving anyone away, people know full well that the act of homosexuality is a sin in islam, if someone is sinning it doesn't stop them from being a "muslim", because everyone sins but theres degrees to sins. To expect muslims to adjust and make new rules for gay people is ludicrous, since it has nothing to do with muslims but between God and the individual, because being a muslim is a choice you cant therefore force islam to accept homosexual behavior as acceptable.

whats an 'open minded muslim?'

Okay, here's my opinion. First, I'd take them to see an endocrinologist, so that they'd get assessed for hormone replacement therapy. Unlike most of the people raised in our present culture, I do not share the politically-correct belief that hormone imbalances altering sexual orientation or gender should be left untreated, because all genders/orientations must be seen as being normal and that it shouldn't be considered a health issue.

If they refused, or if them being homosexual isn't because of any biological cause, I'd advise them not to have any kind of homosexual sexual encounter. I'd be really really strict about it and I'd give them loads of long lectures.

If they didn't listen to me, I'd still keep them in my life. They'd still be my child after all.

Having a homosexual daughter/son is nothing to be disappointed about.

You are horrendous. That is illegal. Hormone therapy of chemical castration as it was formally called, is not legal. What an awful thing to do. It isn't politically correct to say homosexuality isn't a disease - it's not. The science has been done. Deal with it. Your child is going to be scarred forever if that's how tou behave and I'd be surprised if she or he wants you in their life anymore.

I honestly cannot believe half of what I have read today.

Maybe not for you.

So disappointed and sad.
Before ivybridge comes and tells me how I should and should not feel about my child, I want grandkids. Nothing wrong with adopted but I want my children to have their own.

You are horrendous. That is illegal. Hormone therapy of chemical castration as it was formally called, is not legal. What an awful thing to do. It isn't politically correct to say homosexuality isn't a disease - it's not. The science has been done. Deal with it. Your child is going to be scarred forever if that's how tou behave and I'd be surprised if she or he wants you in their life anymore. They have the right to have sex, and the right to be inlove People like you should move to countries that share your views rather than forcing it on people here. Go and live in Saudi if that is what you want the world to be like.

I honestly cannot believe half of what I have read today.

Comprehension... Where did i say there was something wrong with them... I said in my first point it doesnt concern me wheteher a persons straight or not, thats their decision and from a muslim perspective which is what the QUESTION is regarding, its clear that thats between God and the person.

Im not driving anyone away, people know full well that the act of homosexuality is a sin in islam, if someone is sinning it doesn't stop them from being a "muslim", because everyone sins but theres degrees to sins. To expect muslims to adjust and make new rules for gay people is ludicrous, since it has nothing to do with muslims but between God and the individual, because being a muslim is a choice you cant therefore force islam to accept homosexual behavior as acceptable.

Ohmigosh. Hormone therapy isn't castration! :C I think we're talking about different things. It's something lots of doctors do, even in the UK. That's what endocrinologists (=hormone specialists) are for! They diagnose hormone imbalances. As a student studying a medical course, I can tell you that the endocrine and reproductive systems do fail!

Also, why're you accusing me of wanting to change UK laws or of wanting to force my beliefs on people living here in the UK? I have zero intention of doing either. All I've told you was how I'd deal with my own child, within my own family - and I wouldn't even be forcing them!

You are ridiculous.

Are you not planning on having more than one child?

I want them from each of my kids

So disappointed and sad.
Before ivybridge comes and tells me how I should and should not feel about my child, I want grandkids. Nothing wrong with adopted but I want my children to have their own.