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Many people with Autism will also have other learning disabilities, such as Dyslexia, which will make reading harder.


Although I don't have autism or experience working with autistic people, the autistic boy's caretaker or teacher should help him improve his personality. Autism or not, they is always room for improvement.


If only it was that simple...

It seems as though most of you don't have a clue and are just bitter. I'm sure you'd change your tune if you were in that situation. Autism does affect the way you communicate. It can take me several attempts to read a question in order to actually understand it.
Original post by Conservationofmass
Naa you can't take the piss out of him. Does annoy me that I can't say anything about him being a **** tho


You're funny af


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I would agree that logic is something that often lends itself with those with an ASD. But thoughts can get muddled and it can be difficult interpreting the relevant data from questions. (It's why I suspect I prefer pure to applied maths at A-level and Chemistry to Biology)

Original post by morgan8002
Okay. As I said before, it depends on the situation. Do you know anyone else who wanted to do 5?


I'm actually an aspie that convinced my college to let me do 5 :tongue:. So I find this situation amusing as I too used to be disliked because I was condescending and arrogant.
OP, you're an ignoramus and really should read up on autism before you make imbecilic threads such as this. Your willful ignorance astounds me, you're not an SEN specialist and therefore do not have the credentials to debate on whether this young man deserves extra time or not. Take a seat _/, and revise for your exams.
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I'm not autistic, but I do suffer from dyslexia and dyspraxia and I get extra time, the use of a computer and rest breaks.

I quite often don't need the extra time to be honest, and I am much better working on a computer, but until you have a disability it's hard to make a judgement. Maybe he gets rest breaks? You don't know that. I've never used them, but in the past (before diagnosed) really needed space to breath during an exam. :smile:
Original post by SmileyVibe
Although I don't have autism or experience working with autistic people, the autistic boy's caretaker or teacher should help him improve his personality. Autism or not, they is always room for improvement. Do I call people I don't know a-holes in rl? No. Did I call him an a-hole? Yes. Would I dislike an autistic guy who makes me feel bad about my low scores in school? Yes. Its pretty normal reaction/feeling to a bragger. T

It has little to do with him being autistic and more with the way he cares himself when he succeeds. No offense, but I do not care if someone is a little different mentally. If I happen to find someone unlikable, I will not pretend I don't because they're a little different. If they are really viewed as equals then they are not protected from being disliked just like everyone else.


:facepalm:

Autism and aspergers are not mental conditions, they are biological. It's an alternative wiring of the brain, not a mental illness.

You can't 'improve' autism. It's not a curable condition. The only thing you can do with an autistic is to teach them how to act and fake it and the social rules of everyday life. You cannot rewire their brains to be truly neurotypicals

You can't improve someone's personality unless they want to be improved either anymore than you could change an unwilling alcoholic
Original post by Tiger Rag
Many people with Autism will also have other learning disabilities, such as Dyslexia, which will make reading harder.



If only it was that simple...

It seems as though most of you don't have a clue and are just bitter. I'm sure you'd change your tune if you were in that situation. Autism does affect the way you communicate. It can take me several attempts to read a question in order to actually understand it.


Very true Tiger Rag, I forget just because I don't have it that others wouldn't.

Imho just ignore him, it's obvious he doesn't have a clue about what aspergers really is and is likely just jealous of his classmates good grades. I got similar kind of hate in high school tbf and even accused of cheating
Original post by Kvothe the arcane
I'm actually an aspie that convinced my college to let me do 5 :tongue:. So I find this situation amusing as I too used to be disliked because I was condescending and arrogant.


Me too(except for the condescending and arrogant part). I know two people from my college who didn't seem to be autistic and were allowed to take 5 though. One chose the same subjects as me I think but dropped one a few weeks into AS. One took a very close combination(geology instead of further maths). They shouldn't allow some people to take 5 and some not based on whether or not they're autistic.
Original post by morgan8002
Me too(except for the condescending and arrogant part). I know two people from my college who didn't seem to be autistic and were allowed to take 5 though. One chose the same subjects as me I think but dropped one a few weeks into AS. One took a very close combination(geology instead of further maths). They shouldn't allow some people to take 5 and some not based on whether or not they're autistic.


Definitely the aspergers didn't come into play. It was ability + passion.

I was living alone at the time and worked hard and had a noticeable lack of sympathy for pupils who failed after being lazy. It didn't earn me many friends as you might imagine.
well I have autism and I don't get extra time however everyone with autism is different and they all have different struggles he may intelligent but he may struggle in exam conditions :/
I don't think its unfair it's just that some people take longer to read and proses the question than others so they need more time to be able to read the question. like when your running laps and some people start ahead of others because they are in the outer lanes and have further to run. if you see what I'm getting at
Original post by punkroses
OP is just jealous. He shouldn't be, I have a physical disability, different, I know but I imagine autism is hard too. I get extra time in exams. I'd give that up ANY DAY, to be able to walk normally and to be able to concentrate properly on reading. My disability is mild compared to others and I CAN TELL YOU, even mild disabilities are terrible. And I'll tell you what else makes it WORSE, the lack of understanding among others like yourself. Be grateful for what you BOTH have got instead of complaining about extra time disabled people, who are ENTITLED to extra time get in exams.


ANYONE can choose to write CERTAIN words in capitals, doesn't make their points VALID. Your points aren't.
I wasn't comparing autism to depression or personality identity disorder. My point was having a condition or brain rewiring or whether doesn't mean that person is protected from being disliked. Improve autism?

Telling an autistic kid to cool down on the bragging when he knows the people around him are doing badly is improving autism? Alrighty. His caretakers or teachers who help him cannot teach him bragging to other kids who are doing badly isn't nice thing to do is trying to fix him up? Alrighty.

Did you overlook my point that having autism does not make someone less likely to be disliked or did you chose to ignore it and somehow make this a mental illness thing? :s-smilie:

I'm sorry if you got that impression.
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Original post by SmileyVibe
I wasn't comparing autism to depression or personality identity disorder. My point was having a condition or brain rewiring or whether doesn't mean that person is protected from being disliked. Improve autism?

Telling an autistic kid to cool down on the bragging when he knows the people around him are doing badly is improving autism? Alrighty. His caretakers or teachers who help him cannot teach him bragging to other kids who are doing badly isn't nice thing to do is trying to fix him up? Alrighty.

Did you overlook my point that having autism does not make someone less likely to be disliked or did you chose to ignore it and somehow make this a mental illness thing? :s-smilie:

I'm sorry if you got that impression.


Do you actually know anything about Autism? I get the impression you don't.
Original post by Conservationofmass
a kid in my school, has aspergers or whatever it's called. He's more intelligent than anyone in the school, and retains information without doing hardly/much work and get's amazing grades. But the thing that gets me, is that he has an extra half an hour in every exam, despite him getting nearly 100 percent in everything and being predicted A*'s, he's excuse is that it takes his brain longer to function(which is bs he's quicker than everyone in class and is always on the last question when we leave). Then if he beats one of us in an exam, he gets really cocky and gloats about it. I feel this is pretty unfair.
I have Asperger's, and it's crap that it takes you longer.

That said, I got extra time in my exams because I'm dyslexic - I couldn't read or write as fluently as everyone else, even though I knew my stuff probably better.
Original post by Tiger Rag
Do you actually know anything about Autism? I get the impression you don't.
Autists can be told. Some even listen. I did.
Original post by Tootles
I have Asperger's, and it's crap that it takes you longer.


But that's you. It's a spectrum. Just because you're ok doing something, doesn't mean we all are.
Original post by Tiger Rag
But that's you. It's a spectrum. Just because you're ok doing something, doesn't mean we all are.
Please don't try to educate me about my own condition. Most of the aspies I know/have known are very similar to me - maybe more intellient than I am. I've met people in other areas of the spectrum with varying degrees of intelligence/speed, but I was specifically referring to people with Asperger Syndrome - as I'm sure you saw.
Original post by Tootles
Please don't try to educate me about my own condition. Most of the aspies I know/have known are very similar to me - maybe more intellient than I am. I've met people in other areas of the spectrum with varying degrees of intelligence/speed, but I was specifically referring to people with Asperger Syndrome - as I'm sure you saw.


Le sigh. Even those with Asperger Syndrome aren't all the same. You remind me of a woman who once told me that because her son is perfectly capable of doing something, so should I.
i hate this whole thread some off you dont even understand that autism is a specturm :angry:
personally i dont get extra time and i have autism however due to my anxitey and my behaviour during exams i am in discreet exam room.
so what if other people with autism or aspergers have extra time or even people with learn diffculties get extra time its only because they have different needs to you and the fact you are so rude about it makes me so angry.

Some autistic students find English easy like i do however some find maths and science easier whereas i dont and in science and maths exams i have to read the question a couple of times to understand what they want me to do

At my school i hate telling people im in discreet as they dont see anything wrong with me like physically but im not affected physcially and it really annoys me when students at my school say that because not all disabilites are physically and seen by the eye

threads like this can cause so much upset and anger just beacause some are so rude about others getting extra time i know we all sometimes after we leave a exam remember something we should have written down and wish we have extra time but we dont and sometimes we have to deal with that but that doesnt mean we have to bash others that do

the person you are talking about at your school who has aspergers may have dyslexia and finds it hard to read and write and therefore gets extra time because of how hard he finds it write and read


some off you need to remember that we are all different and just because we have the same condition doesnt make us the same
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