Normally it is pretty easy to see, especially when you take a look downstairs.
Not always, a lot of young women with conditions such as androgen insensitivity syndrome don't even know till they look into why they haven't menstruated by their late teens...
Not always, a lot of young women with conditions such as androgen insensitivity syndrome don't even know till they look into why they haven't menstruated by their late teens...
I would also think if a trans person did want to date you that it would be best if they told you at the start, but if not the second I found out I would just leave
I would also think if a trans person did want to date you that it would be best if they told you at the start, but if not the second I found out I would just leave
That's a totally different question. One which also isn't straightfoward because I don't generally start conversations with "Hi, I'm Caroline, XX chromosomes and the corresponding hormones and phenotypes, and I also identify as a woman gender wise" which is obvious because that would be stupid even for me who wasn't risking her life saying such a thing in case I told the wrong person.
I was looking at your saying you wanted a "genetic woman", but unless you were having every person you were looking to date checked chromosomally then you couldn't be sure you were, she might not even be sure if you are. When I said earlier I have XX chromosomes that was a total assumption based on my development and reaction to certain drugs etc. I could be a genetic mosaic and not know it (although the chances are unlikely by my age) or I could have absorbed a male twin in utereo.
Since I imagine these aren't the things you're worrying about when choosing a partner, then I think "genetic woman" possibly isn't the criterium you actually apply.
That's a totally different question. One which also isn't straightfoward because I don't generally start conversations with "Hi, I'm Caroline, XX chromosomes and the corresponding hormones and phenotypes, and I also identify as a woman gender wise" which is obvious because that would be stupid even for me who wasn't risking her life saying such a thing in case I told the wrong person.
I was looking at your saying you wanted a "genetic woman", but unless you were having every person you were looking to date checked chromosomally then you couldn't be sure you were, she might not even be sure if you are. When I said earlier I have XX chromosomes that was a total assumption based on my development and reaction to certain drugs etc. I could be a genetic mosaic and not know it (although the chances are unlikely by my age) or I could have absorbed a male twin in utereo.
Since I imagine these aren't the things you're worrying about when choosing a partner, then I think "genetic woman" possibly isn't the criterium you actually apply.
No it is, I would want a genetic woman not somone who claims to be a woman, someone who can bear children and who was born a woman and still is a woman
No it is, I would want a genetic woman not somone who claims to be a woman, someone who can bear children and who was born a woman and still is a woman
But some people who have genetic mosaic conditions have XX chromosomes in at least some of their cells, would have woman as their gender, would be able to bear children (might need a tiny bit of help with hormones possibly, but so do some people who aren't genetic mosaic) and would have been born and woman and still a woman by your description, but I feel like this isn't what you're referring to.
If it is, please forgive me.
And while a woman who is XY who has androgen insensitivity syndrome fails on your genetic test that you're not actually performing and also wouldn't be able to bear children, I don't imagine any of this coming up on the first date, especially when there's a chance, depending on her age, she might not even know yet.
Or, do you pay for the genetic test to see if she's definitely all XX?
But some people who have genetic mosaic conditions have XX chromosomes in at least some of their cells, would have woman as their gender, would be able to bear children (might need a tiny bit of help with hormones possibly, but so do some people who aren't genetic mosaic) and would have been born and woman and still a woman by your description, but I feel like this isn't what you're referring to.
If it is, please forgive me.
And while a woman who is XY who has androgen insensitivity syndrome fails on your genetic test that you're not actually performing and also wouldn't be able to bear children, I don't imagine any of this coming up on the first date, especially when there's a chance, depending on her age, she might not even know yet.
Or, do you pay for the genetic test to see if she's definitely all XX?
It kinda is what I am referring to. and if my potential wife could not bear children I would find it very hard too.
But some people who have genetic mosaic conditions have XX chromosomes in at least some of their cells, would have woman as their gender, would be able to bear children (might need a tiny bit of help with hormones possibly, but so do some people who aren't genetic mosaic) and would have been born and woman and still a woman by your description, but I feel like this isn't what you're referring to.
If it is, please forgive me.
And while a woman who is XY who has androgen insensitivity syndrome fails on your genetic test that you're not actually performing and also wouldn't be able to bear children, I don't imagine any of this coming up on the first date, especially when there's a chance, depending on her age, she might not even know yet.
Or, do you pay for the genetic test to see if she's definitely all XX?