Me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 years and 4 months, since we were both 15. Currently I'm at university in Cardiff and she has been on a gap year. The last three months she has been traveling around South East Asia and things have gotten a bit tense at times due to a lack of communication or time for one another and so forth, but for the overwhelming majority we have been more than okay. At the moment we both know what we want from life, we are both doing the same degree, Biomedical Science, and she will be starting at Oxford Brookes in September. As a couple I don't think we have any problems, but recently I've noticed a difference in the way she feels about me, she no longer shows the emotion she once did and is citing her lack of time whilst traveling for the decrease in communication. I understand her situation and try my best to deal with it myself. However, I know that I have found the one, as cliche as it may seem I have no doubt in my mind that I want to spend the rest of my life with her.
I feel ready to make an extra commitment and we have both spoken about marriage and what not and future plans with one another and we both see ourselves together and hope that we are. Although she has said to me that marriage would be too much as we don't have the correct finances and so much can change over the next two years! But we've been through a year of university and traveling already, we both went to different schools for two years and live only twenty minutes away from one another. I don't know whether I should leave this whole fairy tale proposal idea until I graduate from university myself in 2018 and then if we are still together, which I see no reason why we won't be, and I am 99% sure she doesn't either. I just don't know whether she would say yes or maybe I need to relax and stop thinking that an engagement is what is needed maybe I should relax and just let us get through university and then go from there.
If anyone has any advice or has a similar situation then it would be great!