Let me start of by saying I've never met my crush and don't know him personally. I saw his picture on the "Wall of success" in my high school and to my dismay he already left school studying medicine. Whilst I gravitated toward developing this irrational crush I started stalking him on social media & I found out so much about him, he is 2 years older then me and we are both the same nationality. Prior to this crush I was already planning to study medicine and thought maybe I can 'Chase him' and maybe we can both be working together in a hospital where we both fall in love and (insert a cliche fairytale ending) however he has different political views, hugs many women, (even if they are friends) I'm still jealous. He goes parting 24/7, and even calls girls 'sluts'. I feel like I'm attracted to a monster when I listen to music I daydream and create the most moronic scenes of us being together. He's so goodlooking, like he kind of in a sense looks like Theo James haha however I'm worried if I chase him i could be digging a big hole for myself. What should I do? How can I get over this crush? I regret not knowing him in school whilst I had the chance. I'm so annoying and I can't go back in time. Help I'm so distracted I can't concentrate or be in the moment; I'm just in my own world!
This was me at the start of Year 12. Stop. Stop. Stop!!! Plezse👬👰 You are so much better than whoever this possible jerk is. If he calls women "sluts" then I really don't think he's worth it. I had a crush just like this and it never worked. I finally realized what an awful awful person he was who made girls especially feel bad about themselves.
I really wish I could've gone back in time to change my own mind and I hope I'm not too late to change yours. Don't be depressed about someone who's absolutely idiotic.
PS on a funnier note: I thought this title could be a Mindy Kaling episode- whom I absolutely adore.
This was me at the start of Year 12. Stop. Stop. Stop!!! Plezse👬👰 You are so much better than whoever this possible jerk is. If he calls women "sluts" then I really don't think he's worth it. I had a crush just like this and it never worked. I finally realized what an awful awful person he was who made girls especially feel bad about themselves.
I really wish I could've gone back in time to change my own mind and I hope I'm not too late to change yours. Don't be depressed about someone who's absolutely idiotic.
PS on a funnier note: I thought this title could be a Mindy Kaling episode- whom I absolutely adore.
Let me start of by saying I've never met my crush and don't know him personally. I saw his picture on the "Wall of success" in my high school and to my dismay he already left school studying medicine. Whilst I gravitated toward developing this irrational crush I started stalking him on social media & I found out so much about him, he is 2 years older then me and we are both the same nationality. Prior to this crush I was already planning to study medicine and thought maybe I can 'Chase him' and maybe we can both be working together in a hospital where we both fall in love and (insert a cliche fairytale ending) however he has different political views, hugs many women, (even if they are friends) I'm still jealous. He goes parting 24/7, and even calls girls 'sluts'. I feel like I'm attracted to a monster when I listen to music I daydream and create the most moronic scenes of us being together. He's so goodlooking, like he kind of in a sense looks like Theo James haha however I'm worried if I chase him i could be digging a big hole for myself. What should I do? How can I get over this crush? I regret not knowing him in school whilst I had the chance. I'm so annoying and I can't go back in time. Help I'm so distracted I can't concentrate or be in the moment; I'm just in my own world!
Get over it and move on as it won't last. You're not even going out yet and there are things about him you don't like and complaining online about him.
Get over it and move on as it won't last. You're not even going out yet and there are things about him you don't like and complaining online about him.
Honestly that is easier said then done. I am trying, I have applied for a part time job so I can get him out of my mind.
Find someone else so if you have someone in your life you wouldnt think about him anymore
Take a gap year so you'd have to wait a whole year to decide if you still wanna go after him... kinda like "if you still want it after counting to 100 then we'll buy it" they do to you as a kid (also maybe by then you wouldve found someone else anyway )
Block him or unfollow from all social media accounts, put his pages on parental controls so you cant access them, have a friend keep the password or something for like a month or 2 or however long you need to get over him.
Message him and see what he's really like, maybe when he's an ******* directly to you it will be a turn off.
Find someone else so if you have someone in your life you wouldnt think about him anymore
Take a gap year so you'd have to wait a whole year to decide if you still wanna go after him... kinda like "if you still want it after counting to 100 then we'll buy it" they do to you as a kid (also maybe by then you wouldve found someone else anyway )
Block him or unfollow from all social media accounts, put his pages on parental controls so you cant access them, have a friend keep the password or something for like a month or 2 or however long you need to get over him.
Message him and see what he's really like, maybe when he's an ******* directly to you it will be a turn off.
All this from a picture? Sorry but this is a ridiculous leap, from seeing a picture to true love? Maybe meet him first?
Tbf I've fallen deeply in love with someone just from seeing them in my school. I then proceeded stalk their social media and fall even deeper in love with them....
XD 4 years later, he still doesn't even know I breath the same oxygen....
Atleast OP has spoken to this person.
Tbf I'm so over that crush, it was so irrational it is hilarious, then again I was 14 and my hormones were raging...