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Girlfriend said im too small?

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Reply 20
Original post by DanB1991
Nahhh that's too large.... it's 3.5 inches flaccid and 5.1-5.3 inches erect....


LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL - Well then looks like im ****ed :colonhash: At least my erect is bigger than average :colone:

Original post by FluffyCommie
You're definitely not too small, as most people have said, you're about average!
As for her comment about you not being able to "make her cum", don't worry about that. Orgasms from penetration are not common in every Woman, and what you should be taking advantage of is other parts of your body; your hands and your mouth (tongue) to make her orgasm.


How exactly am i supposed to finger her or lick her kitty, if my dick is lodged in their. If i take it out then i dont bust my nut. Struggles :colondollar:
Reply 21
Original post by DecR1998
I have been with her for a few weeks and we havent really done anything, we have done hand jobs but she has never seen it.

The other day we were both pretty horny when we got back after school and we were standing up kissing and for sixth form we have to dress up in suits and girls have to have smart business, so she took off my suit trousers and she went down and took off my boxers and my cock was not really hard at all and it was about 2 inches (lol) after a while it came up but she said it was too small.

I am about 5.5 inches erect is that too small? We still had sex but she said after that i am not big enough to make her cum. So we sort of had a awkward silence for 10 minutes before i went home and we havent spoke since

Im now really paranoid??? Am i too small? Girls before have not complained so???

Sorry if this is abit awkward but im quite low of confidence as it is and now im really down about it???



All girls are very different and all our internal sizes are different haha. This means that it might take more to satisfy some girls. I wouldn't worry about what she said because in my opinion 5.5 is completely fine. In my opinion she was out of order saying that to you. :smile:
You are of a completely 'normal' size.... like everyone has said. Sounds like she's seen too many movies and does not know what 'normal' actually is. And, frankly, she is the one who is not 'normal' because a 'normal' girl would not speak to anyone like she spoke to you. She sounds like a terrible person actually - you just don't speak to others that way. Also, when you're having in a sexual relationship w/ someone who means something to you emotionally you're just happy to be together.... and wouldn't ever speak to the other person like that because you'd just be glad to be together. Obviously, she just wasn't the right girl (thankfully for you) and if she's that quick to make a hurtful comment to you about something that personal she speaks rudely to others too -whatever the topic is. The problem lies w/ her and I promise the next girl will not even think about it. I agree w/ the other poster, most women don't climax from penetration - so remember that for the next girl - and don't forget to think about her needs first then I promise that girl will not be thinking about size at all which is your case really isn't an issue because, you are, in fact, normal.
Original post by DecR1998
I thought the average was like 7 inches?

Is there even an average for a flaccid dick?
Average for Europe is about 5.5, erect. Not sure what the average is flaccid.
Original post by DecR1998
I have been with her for a few weeks and we havent really done anything, we have done hand jobs but she has never seen it.

The other day we were both pretty horny when we got back after school and we were standing up kissing and for sixth form we have to dress up in suits and girls have to have smart business, so she took off my suit trousers and she went down and took off my boxers and my cock was not really hard at all and it was about 2 inches (lol) after a while it came up but she said it was too small.

I am about 5.5 inches erect is that too small? We still had sex but she said after that i am not big enough to make her cum. So we sort of had a awkward silence for 10 minutes before i went home and we havent spoke since

Im now really paranoid??? Am i too small? Girls before have not complained so???

Sorry if this is abit awkward but im quite low of confidence as it is and now im really down about it???


Sounds like she's not worth the time and effort.
Original post by DecR1998
How exactly am i supposed to finger her or lick her kitty, if my dick is lodged in their. If i take it out then i dont bust my nut. Struggles :colondollar:


Try getting her off first. Or you could rub her clit whilst you're actually in the act.
Original post by Cremated_Spatula
Sounds like she's not worth the time and effort.


[praising intensifies]
What she said was not nice at all. I would feel humiliated if someone said I had small boobs. Though I don't:colondollar: I would break up with her if I were you, imagine she goes on telling everyone lol
She sounds like a bigger dick than you are.
She basically body shamed you and completely disrespected you to your face, dump her srs. Could you imagine if a guy said to his gf her tits are too small or she's too fat or has roast beef curtains? People would have a meltdown about the body shaming, this is no different.
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Girth over length, all these people talking about length, when the important factor is girth.
Would you rather have a 5 inch dick with girth or a skinny 7 inch dick.

Plus why we acting like penis size is everything that matters, LOL.

I've laughed at all the replies so far, so keep making me laugh you jesters.

Haha. I'm dead.
I thought 5.5 was average? :s-smilie:
You're brave for coming out here and saying that.

You got big balls for a guy with a small dick.

^ Everyone was making Jokes, so why can't i?

LOL
nah fam you're actually about average. i used to think my boyfriend was small too but turns out he was average, your girl probably watches too much porn n thinks the average guy has like 8" lmaoo. I would get rid of her, i would never say that to anyone
Reply 34
Original post by LastMinReviseGuy
You're brave for coming out here and saying that.

You got big balls for a guy with a small dick.


LOL I will give you that. I chuckled.

Original post by bassbabe
I thought 5.5 was average? :s-smilie:


Apparently so, i thought it was like 8 inches. Most lads say they have 10 inch dicks, clearly a lie. :u:

Original post by Greg Jackson
She basically body shamed you and completely disrespected you to your face, dump her srs. Could you imagine if a guy said to his gf her tits are too small or she's too fat or has roast beef curtains? People would have a meltdown about the body shaming, this is no different.


True, i could have said things back, but im not that much of a bellend :colonhash:
Ignoring all the Un-helpful comments, If a Girl is actually bothered about your size and not about you. I'd be out of that relationship, faster than a speeding ticket.
Reply 36
Original post by LastMinReviseGuy

Plus why we acting like penis size is everything that matters, LOL.

I've laughed at all the replies so far, so keep making me laugh you jesters.

Haha. I'm dead.


I spy insecurity :smile:
She doesn't seem like a nice person. Five and a half inches is perfect imo.
You should've said that she was too big 😂 God, that must've been degrading, maybe she's been watching too much porn? 🤔
Original post by cxxk
I spy insecurity :smile:

Me? Insecure about my penis size?
I'd send you a picture to prove it to you, but i'm heterosexual. I'm not into guys.

All jokes aside, i heard steroids help with penis growth.

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