I'd like to see the "how would you like a refugee in YOUR house???" line of argument used on other things.
"Why do you support funding the NHS, would YOU treat a cancer victim?"
"Why do you support housing benefit, would YOU let a person in working poverty live with you?"
It's a dumb argument. We're not advocating private charity towards the refugees (although it is welcome). We're asking the government to deliver on its welfare state responsibility to provide for the disadvantaged. The myths get peddled about how we're full, we can't afford it but it's not true and we have a moral responsibility for these refugees.