I think it all comes down to your choice. Ive got about 5 pages into this thread, and I personally am not religious in any way and all I see are people who are trying to get you to do things against your will.
I have looked up Ramadam and i respect how others think about it, but from a purely science perspective, I think that fasting during the day places unnecessary stress on your body.
It appears that your mother (no offence to her or you) doesnt respect your wishes. Other people are trying to tell you to follow a religion (which from what I can tell) you have no interest in other than believing in Allah themself, which I'm sure that somewhere in your scripture (I haven't read it) Allah says how everyone has free will.
It really does come down to your choice and whether you wish to deceive or comply.
Stay alive friend.