If you loved me, you'd go down on me

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Guys is it not disgusting to do it for both?

I can not get my head around how people do this kind of thing. Honestly I feel like vomiting. I can never accept doung that no matter how much I love the person and would not allow them to do it to me as I would respect them and use them.

Really people don't you feel sick?

Yes I don't get the idea of it either. My be has been with like 20 odd other women so not only do I dislike oral but kissing him too, it's just the thought of where he's been. Might trade him in for a younger fresh guy :tongue:

Reply 121

kidleader

it's not comparable though.

girls are expected to go down on men, like, it's the norm within sex (even though, for most women, it's not the most enjoyable part of sex). if a man goes down on a woman, however, it's seen as some great display of passion / something extraordinary (not to mention the fact that women are made to feel insecure about receiving oral sex in general anyways), because it's not something men are expected to do like women are.

maybe it's wrong that your girlfriend phrase her question like that, but can you really blame her? anyway, it's not like it isn't passed off as "sexy and assertive" when men pose such questions. seriously, maybe you should consider why she posed the question in the first place (maybe she wants to receive more, or something to that effect).

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Reply 122

Josb

Original post by kidleader

girls are expected to go down on men, like, it's the norm within sex .

It's also expected for men to go down on women.

Reply 123

username155270

Original post by Josb

I think on the contrary that most guy don't hesitate to go down on girls.

I'm talking about everything in general not just that.

Reply 124

kidleader

Original post by Josb

It's also expected for men to go down on women.

by some, perhaps. but certainly not to the same degree. as a girl i can confirm that young girls are taught (pretty much since they're old enough to understand the implications of sex), in one way or another, that a male partner's pleasure and experience comes first.

Reply 125

Josb

Original post by kidleader

No, a guy who comes too fast or who cannot give orgasms to his girlfriend is considered as a loser. Stop thinking that what guys say at 15yo is the norm.

Reply 126

Anonymous #3

Original post by Anonymous

Looool but seriously fresh or not oral makes me want to puke. Disgusting in every way. I dont care about pleasure, hygiene comes first for me.

Reply 127

Anonymous #5

Original post by Bang Outta Order

Why would I intentionally try to hurt a female I'm with? I'm just not always keen to do it for like germaphobic reasons even though I always want lip service myself.

not fair if you expect head then you wanna try to be all "eww" when your partner wants you to reciprocate

Reply 128

xiatri

if you're expecting head and saying its

Reply 129

Bang Outta Order

Original post by Anonymous

not fair if you expect head then you wanna try to be all "eww" when your partner wants you to reciprocate

honestly sometimes i just cba lol i do it to my partner way more now that i trust her. sorry mate but im not about to get chlamydia all on my face cos im mouthing off random girls