I like for some Imaan and understanding of the culture not in a big way, just know how to act with people like family, I wouldnt want her to be on her phone all the time if she's with my family.
But realistically its about the chemistry you need to click and understand each other more than anything. I would also want her to respect the fact I try to pray even if im out and about. Some girls can be a bit weird about that and say 'oh why is he praying'.
I know what you say about the guys but some girls and mad too, not all of them obviously.