So recently I found myself my first boyfriend (honestly thought it would never happen) we'd been talking for a little before he asked me to be his girlfriend however I honestly do think we rushed things a little but we arrange for him to come up to mine and stay the weekend (never met him before, but facetimed every night) anyway he paid £50 for train tickets to come up and see me last weekend and all was well my family took him out for a meal just as a little ice breaker thing (it was cute) to my knowledge the weekend went really well dare I say it I'm gutted but he did take my virginity in ways I regret it now but in ways I'm thinking it was just experience or a learning curve, he was a very confident person which is sort of the opposite to me but maybe that would of helped me, he was talking about future situations and plans we could make in all honesty I said if he was comfortable with he idea he was more than welcome to come over 2 weekends later and come with me as a plus 1 to a wedding he seemed well up for it at the time however he got on the train to go back home at the end of the weekend (Sunday) but by Tuesday he decided he no longer wanted to be in the relationship as you can imagine I was 100% gutted especially after not being together for so long, he blamed it on the distance, said it was annoying and wasn't prepared to put the effort or work into the relationship which basically just tore me to pieces. So anyway I'm one week down the line and just want to wipe things away but needed to get things of my chest, however my question is was I the cause the relationship ending? I'm afraid I wasn't good enough for him and it was just an excuse for him to get out of the relationship quick, however I am also thinking he had the whole situation planned he was just going to come up and use me then leave anyway!! I just don't really know what to do with myself its forever on my mind and I just want it forgotten :/