Hi guys,
So I've been with this boy on and off for over 2 years and he holds a huge part of my heart. Things have never been 100% smooth between us and yes we argue quite a lot, but most couples do.. right?
We've had 2 lots of 7 month successful relationship period where everything was happy and we spent so much time with each other, but all of that has come crashing down just a few days ago.
To cut things short, the boy has put us onto a 'break' with no specified end date, that's the part that kills me the most. We cant have contact with each other, I'm currently trying to focus on my AS levels (which I'm struggling to focus on) but I also cant talk to any other boys.
I don't know where the fact he's putting me on a break is telling enough that he's lost feelings for me, and from that I should seize the opportunity to leave him now. Its a hard decision because I'm totally in love with him, but I just don't know what to do.
1. What are breaks? What's that correct length of a break? Is it really ok for him to take control over me by saying I cant speak to anyone else during the break?
2. Should I leave him? If he's having doubts, enough to make him not want to speak to me for days upon end, should I just leave him?
3.Do I push harder? Do I turn up to his house unexpectedly and present myself to him, pleading for our relationship back?
There are sooo many more details to this story including family and friends and their views on the boy, what we've been through together etc. but I thought it best to keep it short.
If anyone could answer any of those questions id appreciate it so so much
Thank you x
(ps We're both 17, turning 18 in a few months)