Lose it to someone you love, I waited to till I was 24 years old to lose mine but I lost it to a person I love. We are still together, that's what makes me happy. I don't want too sleep around and rather just have that one partner that I been with and thankfully it's the same for my partner.
That I lost my virginity that can only be lost once to a hooker, plus I wanted it to be after marriage and that.
I was just worried (still am a bit now) that when I tell my future girl, she'll bolt.
Well you must have spent ages thinking about it and you went through with it, so live with it. Take responsibility like an adult and stop being so weak.
ps dpnt start with the opening line. the last person I slept with was a hooker....
Well you must have spent ages thinking about it and you went through with it, so live with it. Take responsibility like an adult and stop being so weak.
ps dpnt start with the opening line. the last person I slept with was a hooker....
I am living with it, how am I weak? I've accepted that I've done it.
That's what I'm worrying about, I need to think of a certain way to say it to her. A time and place. i shouldn't usually worry until I get a girl though.
I lost my virgnity to an escort last weekend. I used protection throughout, so that is not what I am worried about.
I am just feeling so disgusted with myself that I just threw away my virginity like that in such an immoral way. Like when I heard about the footballers hiring escorts, I saw them as filth, and now I feel like I am filth myself...
You banged a girl you dont respect, dont worry she probably doesnt respect you either. She got the cash, you busted a nut. Everyones a winner (Sort off)
I am living with it, how am I weak? I've accepted that I've done it.
That's what I'm worrying about, I need to think of a certain way to say it to her. A time and place. i shouldn't usually worry until I get a girl though.
Because you are worrying and overthinking it. Not a big issue and if you think its a massive one for you, then just keep it to yourself. Plenty of people lose their virginity in a less than planned or disappointing way.
Because you are worrying and overthinking it. Not a big issue and if you think its a massive one for you, then just keep it to yourself. Plenty of people lose their virginity in a less than planned or disappointing way.
Yeah, I guess I am. But the girl needs to know about any deal breakers, some girl on reddit told me this and said if I don't I'll just be manipulating her to get what I want in case she might be against prostitution.
Yeah, I guess I am. But the girl needs to know about any deal breakers, some girl on reddit told me this and said if I don't I'll just be manipulating her to get what I want in case she might be against prostitution.
You are overthinking it. Instead of blurting it out then you should just play it by ear. I'm all for honesty and trust, but theres a time and place. The guilt thing doesnt work for me.
You are overthinking it. Instead of blurting it out then you should just play it by ear. I'm all for honesty and trust, but theres a time and place. The guilt thing doesnt work for me.
I don't get any of this, "play it by ear" and "The guilt thing doesn't work for me." confuses me.
I don't get any of this, "play it by ear" and "The guilt thing doesn't work for me." confuses me.
Rather than worrying about what you will tell the gf who doenst exist, then get a gf first and get to know her. People are individuals and they all have diffeent views. Perhaps she might not condemn you about it at all, perhaps she might not wnat to know?
What's the point in being guilty? its done and you made a choice to do it. As long as it was between two consenting adults, then cant say I would be fussed. Carry on self flagellating over it, vut not the most sensible thing to do imo.
Btw if you reallt were oing to pik a hooker, then hope you picked a hot one or one that was proficient.
I lost my virgnity to an escort last weekend. I used protection throughout, so that is not what I am worried about.
I am just feeling so disgusted with myself that I just threw away my virginity like that in such an immoral way. Like when I heard about the footballers hiring escorts, I saw them as filth, and now I feel like I am filth myself...
every one makes mistakes just look ahead now who cares whats done is done just don't do it again its q jks tbh
Rather than worrying about what you will tell the gf who doenst exist, then get a gf first and get to know her. People are individuals and they all have diffeent views. Perhaps she might not condemn you about it at all, perhaps she might not wnat to know?
What's the point in being guilty? its done and you made a choice to do it. As long as it was between two consenting adults, then cant say I would be fussed. Carry on self flagellating over it, vut not the most sensible thing to do imo.
Btw if you reallt were oing to pik a hooker, then hope you picked a hot one or one that was proficient.
A lot of people at uni have made fun of me/make fun of me for having no experience, and I know I shouldn't listen to people but I would be lying to myself if I said it didn't get to me..
It makes me feel like **** when I realise everyone has been screwing since like 15 and I have only ever been rejected time and time again because of my appearance (something I can't change lol). So nowadays I just try not to think about sex or girls because as soon as I do it makes me realise how pathetic I am and I soon start feeling like **** again
And I know people say 'oh it'll happen when you least expect it' but I'm starting to become really sceptical of that now.
I lost my virgnity to an escort last weekend. I used protection throughout, so that is not what I am worried about.
I am just feeling so disgusted with myself that I just threw away my virginity like that in such an immoral way. Like when I heard about the footballers hiring escorts, I saw them as filth, and now I feel like I am filth myself...
Dont feel like that, just consider it as a mistake, and try to go out with ur friends to get ur mind off things, it may help u to feel better