Do guys like reserved girls?

I was seeing a guy who was always very hesitant about getting into a relationship with me, and in the end he admitted that I was more 'quiet and calm' than him, and that as a result he couldn't see it working.

it's true I'm a little more reserved, but I would say Im talkative. I saw him a few times and we always had good conversations and had a laugh, both online and in person. We've only been in a club together once, but we had a dance and a laugh. Again, in person and online we've always bee nable to laugh and joke.
I'm not much of a party animal, and I don't really drink, but I go out to clubs every couple of weeks just to see my friends. He told me he found me very funny, and other people as well have told me i'm witty and funny.

He is very much a hard partier, heavy drinker etc. and very much a bouncing off the walls, doing crazy stuff kind of guy. Do you think that maybe I just wouldn't have been 'fun' enough for him? He's not the first guy who has told me this, and I'm starting to think that maybe I am not exciting enough....

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I always reserve mine.

Reply 3

Davalla

Get it in to your silly head that these threads are pointless because we cannot generalise preferences.

Someone out there will gladly have lovely passionate sex with you in the morning, then another quickie before heading off to work, and then another shagging before bed-time.

Stop moaning, dood.

* I also thought it said "reversed girls"

Reply 4

Plantagenet Crown

I thought it said reversed.

:innocent:

Not that I was thinking of reverse cowgirl or anything :sexface:

Reply 5

EricPiphany

Original post by Plantagenet Crown

I thought it said reversed.

:innocent:

Not that I was thinking of reverse cowgirl or anything :sexface:

What did you make me google.

Reply 6

999tigger

All guys arent the same believe it or not. Some wont mind or even prefer more reserved girls, so dont worry its just a case of finding someone who you are compatible with and avoid getting a complex along the way.

Reply 7

Anonymous #2

obviously you're not compatabile.

you literally just described and solved your own issue - guys who live a different lifestyle to him will most likely want to be with you.

reserved is fine I don't party etc but alot of people tell I'm fun and also funny and they like being around me. He likes to party so that's obviously his definition of fun and that trumps other social activities from HIM, everyone's brain works differently and people like different things.

Tbh most guys I know prefer if a girl doesn't go out and party loads but all guys are different.

Reply 8

Bang Outta Order

Original post by EricPiphany

What did you make me google.

Lol you did NOT have to actually google that did you mate...?

Reply 9

bat_man

Original post by Anonymous

lol although partying is fun, it seems that is usually the definition of fun nowadays, although i feel that there are many other ways to have fun imo. So yeah, all guys are different

Reply 10

Bang Outta Order

Original post by Davalla

Basically, there's someone for everyone. And not everyone is for someone.
Or something like that.

Reply 11

EricPiphany

Original post by 0to100

Lol you did NOT have to actually google that did you mate...?

I did mate. But now I know that

The "riding" position (Mulier equitans) was popular in ancient Roman erotic art (wall painting from Pompeii, 62–79 BC)

And I also now know what "Pompoir" is wtf.

Reply 12

Anonymous #2

Original post by bat_man

lol although partying is fun, it seems that is usually the definition of fun nowadays, although i feel that there are many other ways to have fun imo. So yeah, all guys are different

I'm not introverted but
I'd rather stay at home and suck his dick than go out and party.

Most people at my school party but I agree with the bolded. Weed > alcohol imo anyway so idk I just wouldn't want to be smashed around loads of people I'm not close with, I know partying doesn't necessarily mean getting drunk but...

Reply 13

GlitterandGold-x

Original post by EricPiphany

What did you make me google.

How old are you...

Reply 14

Bang Outta Order

Original post by EricPiphany

I did mate. But now I know that

And I also now know what "Pompoir" is wtf.

Lmao well did you like what you found?

Reply 15

EricPiphany

Original post by GlitterandGold-x

How old are you...

I was born yesterday.

How old are you?

Reply 16

Plantagenet Crown

Original post by EricPiphany

What did you make me google.

Technically I didn't make you google anything.

But TSR is for education so either way.

Reply 17

EricPiphany

Original post by Plantagenet Crown

Technically I didn't make you google anything.

But TSR is for education so either way.

It's ok mate, I'm not blaming you.

Reply 18

GlitterandGold-x

Original post by EricPiphany

I was born yesterday.

How old are you?

That explains things. I am 8564 days, 12 hours and 22 minutes old :h:

Reply 19

bat_man

Original post by Anonymous

lol generally partying does lead to being drunk, i get you, if youre not drunk like you dont have as much fun as you generally would. Drinking isnt all that.