Anyone here not actually love their mother?

Well no one is perfect, and everyone makes mistakes down the line.

Some bigger than the other. I know it sounds difficult but it's the proper thing to do. Yes the parent was in the wrong, but what do you gain from storing hate in your heart because of things that happened in the past to you.

God says forgive, forget and move on.

Well no one is perfect, and everyone makes mistakes down the line.

Some bigger than the other. I know it sounds difficult but it's the proper thing to do. Yes the parent was in the wrong, but what do you gain from storing hate in your heart because of things that happened in the past to you.

God says forgive, forget and move on.

Don't be pushing on anyone your ideology of proper, m'kay? (Hang on, sounds like religion here)
We'd have a world full of murderers (oh, sorry, sinners) with a blind and twisted hope for redemption.

Hang on, brb, I'm just going to tell that lady whose son was murdered that she should forgive the person who butchered her only boy. Cos, y'know, it is the proper thing to do.

Same here Let me point out to all the people overreacting and saying that its disrespectful, that not loving your mother and hating her are not the same thing. I may not love my mother but I still respect her somewhat and I'm still grateful that I did have a family to take care of me, feed me, take me to school because I know that some people aren't as lucky. But it takes a lot more than that to deserve love

It is the proper thing to do. What do you want to do, go back and murder their own child, rather than forgive them and move on with your life?

Mins you that putting the perpetrator in prison or some form of punishment like giving them the death penalty even after forgiving them is Biblical

You don't make sense.

By the way, it is not the proper thing to do. It only consists of one religious, borderline fanatical way of dealing with things. FYI, the religious way =/= the correct way to do things. Thankfully, we have a wider spectrum than just religious people nowadays.

You have absolutely zero right to impose your ideology of 'proper' on anyone, because you have not experienced the cruelest hardships that exist in this world. Your comment is so overwhelmingly naïve it is mind boggling.
Come back to me when you have personally experienced every single tragedy in existence, tell me you've forgiven every single perpetrator, and I shall gladly admit I am wrong.

Well that's your own problem. If you choose to walk around storing hate for someone because they have wronged you in some way then be my guess, do what you want. I have a functioning Brain and it tells me that there's no point in hating someone forever, and your point about how I should go through every form of tragedy before I can comment on it shows how narrow minded you are.

Despite how ignorant, stubborn and frankly dangerous people like you are (from looking at all you've said), the sheer irony of this post gave me quite a chuckle...

Well that's your own problem. If you choose to walk around storing hate for someone because they have wronged you in some way then be my guess, do what you want. I have a functioning Brain and it tells me that there's no point in hating someone forever, and your point about how I should go through every form of tragedy before I can comment on it shows how narrow minded you are.

Well that's your own problem. If you choose to walk around storing hate for someone because they have wronged you in some way then be my guess, do what you want. I have a functioning Brain and it tells me that there's no point in hating someone forever, and your point about how I should go through every form of tragedy before I can comment on it shows how narrow minded you are.

M'kay.

On the contrary, you seem the more narrow minded since you blindly follow the ideology of your religion; 'God would want me too…' 'God would do…' and the classic, 'what would Jesus do?'
You seem more like a member of a flock, 'functioning brain' aside.

You obviously do not understand the scope of your previous statement so I shall argue with you no longer. Go follow your Shepard.

Since when is rejecting religion being narrow minded? It's not. You just seem like a do gooder who blindly follows the Bible and its belief on forgiveness which is BS. Non religious people actually live with their guilt because that's what normal people do.

That's a crazy stupid idiotic lie.

I shutter to phantom what you call normal

I'm not the one storing hate in my heart till i reach my grave.

I'm not the one storing hate in my heart till i reach my grave.

Well no one is perfect, and everyone makes mistakes down the line.Some bigger than the other. I know it sounds difficult but it's the proper thing to do. Yes the parent was in the wrong, but what do you gain from storing hate in your heart because of things that happened in the past to you.God says forgive, forget and move on.

The act of giving life to you and not aborting you and turning your conception into an abortion statistic isn't anything?

WOW. People these days.


The case of your dad is, if he wasn't a part of your life then you have no reason to either love them or hate them, you can't decide on that because you don't know him. What I was talking about are parents you live with that seem to be very strict, very abusive and very unpleasant. Some parents are like that, some teachers are like that and some friends are like that, but that doesn't mean they can't change and turn into better human beings, like i said. My mother 3 years ago was probably 3 times as bad as the OP's mother, but I loved her then and still love her now.


The point was that Children aren't just supposed to sit on their a*ss and expect their parents to do everything for them, there are some times when they need you just as much as you need them and you as a child have to show them that support