Why do girls pretend to have ridiculously high standards?

Thats not true, cliche as it is, you have something no one else does, whether its your skills/quirks/kindness/curiosity/mindset/ability to see certain things in others, tbh the fact that you dont judge a guy by his looks is already amazing, most ppl inevitably do, so dont put yourself down like that!


also beauty is in the eye of the beholder!

****ing love it when people go stating subjective measures as though they're objective fact.

there comes a point where it gets a bit ridiculous though

Expecting everybody's idea of beauty to be similar to yours is a bit ridiculous imo

Not really? There's somewhat of a 'universal standard' of attractiveness. Obviously doesnt apply to everyone ofc.

It's usually pretty obvious when somebody is good looking or not.

I see so many girls on this site and in real life who seem to refuse to admit that any male is attractive, including celebrities and models asides from one or two of these celebrities they have "crushes" on. I once heard someone claim Brad Pitt was ugly because his nose is too big, and zac efron is 'too feminine'. Seriously I understand not finding them your type but why pretend someone who's attractive is ugly? Small flaws like this do not make someone who's face is otherwise perfect a 2/10.

Also in real life you'll get girls complain that everyone in their sixth form is ugly then end up dating one of these "ugly" boys. It's quite obvious that a lot of girls find more boys attractive than they let on so why exactly pretend you find everyone but 0.1% of the population hideous? I'll admit I'm making a vast generalization here but its behaviour that a LOT of girls seem to engage in so I'm just curious as to why this is.

Not really? There's somewhat of a 'universal standard' of attractiveness. Obviously doesnt apply to everyone ofc.

If it doesn't apply to everybody then it's not universal....

Some girls just like to act prestige and act like they're hard to get, no need to get so worked up by it. Deep down they know they're not actually that special.

I don't get this post at all, in all honesty. Why is so awful for girls to have high standards? You boys are out here looking for some 5'2 girl with a size four waist yet a big booty and chest, blue eyes and blonde hair but still tanned skin... and you STILL expect us to fall for someone that doesn't meet our standards of... what? A tall guy with pretty eyes?

As for what you said about girls not finding "conventionally" attractive men handsome, well, each to their own, y'know? Not everyone finds a particular type of person attractive - some people even find no-one attractive, or only find them attractive after getting to know them.

Finally, what exactly is the optimum amount of "standard" for a girl to have? OP of this thread is saying how girls have too 'high expectations' and they can't be met, and yet another poster is saying that girls don't have any 'standards', slagging them off and calling them whores (I would say that girls also shouldn't be looked down on for being sexual beings, but that's another story...). All in all, you should treat every one decently, irrelevant of who they are or aren't attracted to, or whether or not they're screwing anyone.

TL;DR: Don't slag an entire gender off because you're pissed that you're not getting any.

Majority of people is enough , doesn't need to be everyone.

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