"Dear you...." MKII

Your situation sounds exactly identical to mine! It's almost scary how identical everything you've written is. It's nice to see I'm not the only one like this

Haha, are you in the same boat as me, or the guy in my situation? I tried to be vague just in case he's on here lol.

Dear you,

When will you all realise that the only thing that should matter is your child's happiness? Why would you put your relationship with others above your child's happiness?

Your child should be number one. Who cares if other people are not happy with your decision because it goes against the norm. Just think about your children for once. Do you really want them to have to go through what you have been through?

After reading the news that I have today I feel ashamed of calling myself a Pakistani. How can a mother do that to her own child? Why are kids punished for falling in love? The way that she felt proud of what she had done disgusts me.

I understand that change is hard but it's necessary. You can't keep living in the past, things just don't work like that anymore.

Let your children live their life the way they want to. Let them be happy. Don't guilt or force them into doing what you want. Just ****ing ignore what others think. Who gives a **** about 'what people are going to say'? They're not the ones living your or your child's life.

From a daughter

Dear you,

When will you all realise that the only thing that should matter is your child's happiness? Why would you put your relationship with others above your child's happiness?

Your child should be number one. Who cares if other people are not happy with your decision because it goes against the norm. Just think about your children for once. Do you really want them to have to go through what you have been through?

After reading the news that I have today I feel ashamed of calling myself a Pakistani. How can a mother do that to her own child? Why are kids punished for falling in love? The way that she felt proud of what she had done disgusts me.

I understand that change is hard but it's necessary. You can't keep living in the past, things just don't work like that anymore.

Let your children live their life the way they want to. Let them be happy. Don't guilt or force them into doing what you want. Just ****ing ignore what others think. Who gives a **** about 'what people are going to say'? They're not the ones living your or your child's life.

From a daughter

This is about that **** of a mother that burnt her own daughter? I agree with you. Foolish ignorant ***** that lady is.

You know the thing that infuriates me the most about this particular case. It's the fact that it's the girls own mother who did it. Not father. But another woman, her mother who raised her daughter in her womb for months. A woman who should understand life from a female perspective.

And the thing is, it's not uncommon in Pakistani communities in the UK to see women creating trouble for their daughters and daughter-in-laws. But at the same time they would do anything to defend their sons who, in lots of cases, do much worse than the girls will ever do.

I'm with you on this, it makes me feel sick to be Pakistani too when I see stuff like this happening in Pakistan. When murder is seen as being better than marrying someone you wish to marry, then there is something seriously wrong.

Dear you,

I don't even know you, and you're telling others that you are my boyfriend? That is so CREEPY.

If I ever hear from my brother that you're saying this again, I swear to God, I will find you and kick you in the balls.

Me.

Sorry

I am actually seething rn. I want to rip his face off.

x

You know I loved you, you know the reason I acted out after the breakup was because I wasn't over it completely, you know the reason we broke up wasn't because of one slut in freshers week. I'm surprised you still miss me, yes you do occasionally come up in my mind but uni has changed me.

Are you really going to N?

You sure you've got the right post?