You must have heard the saying "nice guys finish last"? Motivational words, my friend. Stop wasting time trying to "get to know" girls and trying to be friends with them because they'll just sideline you. The friendzone is not a place you want to end up in. Go to the gym, make some gains, get some self-confidence and have a bit of attitude - make sure b******* know that you're a fun guy and you know how to have a laugh, especially at their expense. Make fun of them, put them down, give them underhanded compliments etc. As harsh as it sounds, girls are shallow about these things - all they want is someone with a built body and someone who can keep their attention by giving them a "challenge". By all means be horrible to her but do it in moderation. If you're just after p***y, no use hiding it - go out and chase it. Be honest about your intentions and don't be afraid of p*****g a b**** off cos they just make a big deal out of anything. Girls want a guy who is an alpha - make sure you assert your status and eventually the girls will come to you.