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The best way to get over someone, is to get with someone else?

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Original post by formation_hype
The best way to get over someone, is to get with someone else?


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No, it's not, because chances are you'll carry over all the emotional baggage from the previous relationship/breakup. I know someone who did this and it causes problems in their relationshio.

Have time to yourself, rediscover yourself, develop your hobbies and interests, work hard, and when you feel whole again THEN you look for a potential partner.
Can only really echo the above.

Most people need time to move on, moving on too soon can make your new relationship very awkward as you could still be thinking about that person, and being with that person, leaving both of you very confused and hurt at the end!

Take your time and learn to love yourself and be happy. Then when you meet the right person, you'll be emotionally stronger and confident knowing who you are as an individual.
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Works for some not for others. Depends on what you mean by "get with". The rebound is a classic and can help some. As stated by others finding an actual meaningful relationship to move onto can help others, but they usually bring lots of baggage with them.

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