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Should I or should I not message her?

Me and this woman have gotten really close recently, she is 5 years older than me but we get on really well. She ended her long relationship a few months ago and I was kind of there as a shoulder to cry on for her and since then we've become really close, I've never felt as close to anyone before as I have with her. Anyway she messaged me about 3 weeks ago to check I was ok when it was the anniversary of something bad that happened to me a few years ago and that really meant a lot to me and I told her so.

Anyway since then she has been really cold with me I have been getting the impression that she doesn't want to talk to me and maybe I have done something to annoy or upset her and it's driving me crazy.

This weekend I am going on holiday for a fortnight and I kind of don't want to go without talking to her because she is all I can think about but at the same time I don't want to message her in case we fallout and it puts me in a sad mood on my holiday.

What should I do? Should I message her or should I not?

Reply 1

khuman97

do you think she is avoiding you because she knows you like her not just as a friend?

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Original post by khuman97

do you think she is avoiding you because she knows you like her not just as a friend?

I don't think so because I mentioned about us going out for drinks when I get back and she seemed up for it. And I have made it known that I like her for ages.

Reply 3

SMEGGGY

Well leave it at that. Return & go for drinks as arranged

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Reply 4

khuman97

Original post by Anonymous

I don't think so because I mentioned about us going out for drinks when I get back and she seemed up for it. And I have made it known that I like her for ages.

then go for it i dont see the reason why not, she might be going through something or as you said you might have dome something without realising so sorting it out sooner is better

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Original post by khuman97

then go for it i dont see the reason why not, she might be going through something or as you said you might have dome something without realising so sorting it out sooner is better

Thanks. The problem is I don't know how I could have annoyed her when I haven't even spoken to her.

Reply 6

Elivercury

Original post by SMEGGGY

Well leave it at that. Return & go for drinks as arranged

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This is the correct answer.

Instead of torturing yourself trying to read her mind, go away, have a good time and bring some good stories back for when you next have drinks.

Reply 7

Magic Member

message her, smash some eggs

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

Original post by Elivercury

This is the correct answer.

Instead of torturing yourself trying to read her mind, go away, have a good time and bring some good stories back for when you next have drinks.