I suffer from anxiety and depression. I've had suicidal thoughts and tried to kill myself once.I no longer disclose those things to girls I date or want to date (though after some time, it becomes impossible not to). Because it seems quite a few have a burning desire to "fix" you. I don't know why that is. Even though I'm clearly not stable, I want a stable girl for myself and I don't know of any guy who would want an unstable or "broken" girl. And yet I am certain some girls have dated me only because they thought they'd make me a better man. They all failed and one of them who I had really strong feelings for, broke my heart and made me feel worse than I've ever felt.Why do girls do this? I mean, maybe I'm wrong and they don't but I've experienced it many times myself. I know no guys who'd like a girl version of myself (unless she was hot which I'm not) so I can't find a parallel case with males.