In love with a guy I met on-line

But i love him

When he does come over to teach, he will be coming down to visit me, but we down know when that will be.

Deep down i don't think he loves me as much as i do him, i cried myself to sleep over him last night.

I'm not entirely sure, she said they are friends but I'm not sure how they met

Do you never speak to your sister? Surely it's a simple question to ask, especially if you love this guy/want to know about him? I mean you could ask him also.

How long exactly have you been "together"?

I mean, relationships with age differences can work, but they're usually harder work and require the elder to be fairly immature and the junior to be extra mature. Only you know how accurate that is in this case.

How do you know he's speaking to students/colleagues? Could just be family members. Why's he calling you at work anyway? I have teacher friends and they barely get enough to time piss and grab a coffee, let alone have protracted phonecalls with distance lovers.

I'm assuming he's planning to come teach Spanish? Why at Cambridge? I mean if he wants to move for you surely he'd move nearby and the secondary schools in Cambridge are no better than anywhere else in the country I would imagine.

You also appear yo have ignored everything else I said/asked.

Do you never speak to your sister? Surely it's a simple question to ask, especially if you love this guy/want to know about him? I mean you could ask him also.

How long exactly have you been "together"?

You think you do, but I do not think it is possible if you have never met.

If I were you, I would let this one go.

I can't do that!

Seems like you dont really care what everyone else has to say anyway, so why this thread. I honestly think you are making one of the stupidest decisions which you will later come to regret.

How old is this guy? How old are you? How long have you been together? What are your plans in life?


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and what does he teach in mexico?

I'm 18 he is 41,

I just wanted people opinions. And maybe some support and advice, but everyone is being so negative.

I am talking note of all the comments I'll ask to Skype when text him later.

I'm madly in love with a guy i met on-line. He is friends with my sister, she introduced me to him We text everyday and i call him or he calls me nearly everyday.

He lives in Mexico so we've never met, he tells me that he is planning to come to a teaching job in Cambridge, i want to believe him, but part or me doesn't. He is older than me but i don't care, i want to be with him. I've considered taking a gbap year before uni to go to him.

I don't know what to do he is the first person i've ever loved.

Not ignored just don't know what to say.

He calls me during lunch or when he is marking papers. The people i hear in the background are asking questions about schoolwork, exams etc.

He isn't going to be a Spanish teacher but i understand why you assumed that. He was planning on moving to Cambridge before we started talking




I do ask my sister but she is very vauge when i ask about him. She knows how i feel and just said that he is a good person and that i shouldn't be woth someone that makes me cry.

Together? A few months but I've known him a bit longer.

I'm madly in love with a guy i met on-line. He is friends with my sister, she introduced me to him We text everyday and i call him or he calls me nearly everyday.

He lives in Mexico so we've never met, he tells me that he is planning to come to a teaching job in Cambridge, i want to believe him, but part or me doesn't. He is older than me but i don't care, i want to be with him. I've considered taking a gap year before uni to go to him.

I don't know what to do he is the first person i've ever loved.

Everyone is being so "negative" because we are concerned about your fixation and "love" (but not real love) for a 41 year old mexican man which you have never met, not even skyped. Your holding out what could be false hope for him moving here to teach, and your 18!!! please please please go and live your life, when you will be 28 he will be 51, when your 38 he will be 61 and when your 48 he will be 71... Think of it that way, the age gap is significant and very unlikely to work as at different times in life people want and require different things.

Were not trying to be mean, were trying to help you see how ludicrous and niave this all sounds to us. Your coming across incredibly immature for an 18 year old and its so unhealthy to bw fixated on a man you have never met, let alone be in love with him.

Honestly its not worth it!


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Computers and Robotics. He is an Tech geek

I do get everything you are saying, trust me, and i'm reading everything, I am partly concerned about getting hurt.

I was trying not to mention this but i was bullied my whole school life due to so called friends, all because i wanted to study and do well in life. José is the 1st guy that liked me for me, he likes that i'm a study nerd (our words) we get on so well.

Again he is my first boyfriend and first love.

He's a tech geek who teaches about computers and robotics but you've never skyped together? It can't be a tech issue.

I mean, do you see the red flag here?

Incidentally, what would he teach over here at secondary school? We don't learn robotics here at secondary (in fact I am highly sceptical that mexicans learn robotics at secondary).

Wish I'd been told this last year

Yes i see the flag, but we've never done it because neither of us have asked and believe it or not I'm incredibly shy.

Its a private college so it's university.