My brothers ex girlfriend is living with us!!

I need some help guys I moved back home in March I was living and working in Leeds since 2013 which I loved but unfortunately I split up with my ex so has to leave my job with Leeds council.
When I moved back to my mums that's when I found out I was pregnant, my brothers ex girlfriend lives with my mum with my niece and her other 10 month old son. I'm honestly starting to get depressed the house is always noisey because of the kids she invites her step sisters over to stay without asking my mum her sisters are here for the weekend now. I feel like a stranger in my mums house. She has the spare room which I need for me and my unborn son. Me and my mum are taking it in turns to sleep on the sofa and the bed. I'm only working part time now so can not afford to get my own place plus I want to stay with my mum anyway as I will need her help. My mum is to nice to just tell her to go she has no intentions of leaving. I keep getting upset about it and crying it's horrible not being able to just relax! Any advice would be great X

Oh dear.. This is really unfair.. Does she pay anything for the rent? I think that it should be your brother's responsibility to tell her to move out..

My mum hasn't been able to work as she suffers from anxiety so she has been claiming housing benefit for a few months. My mum would get all of her house paid for but because my brothers ex lives here and she's a non dependant she doesn't. So my brothers ex has to give my mum £15 a week but it's a nightmare just getting the money of her. I'm so glad you guys also think this is unfair. I was starting think I'm being selfish but I'm really not. Any ideas on what we should do? I think I'm going to sit down with my mum and tell her that if she doesn't leave soon in going to have to go elsewhere x

Have you talked to her? I know it may be hard but you must stand up for yourself. I am sure she would understand you unless she is a very terrible person.. Hasn't she talked about any of her future plans about moving out or anything similar?

Sounds nice of her to offer to look after your child once he's here.

But I don't know the situation. Talk to her, she can apply for a house with her children? Suggest it.

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Yes it is nice shame she's not the type of person I would want looking after my child.
That's the other problem she can't get any housing as she isn't a British citizen she's been having problems with her application for years.
I don't really know much about that side of things anyway! But it feels like we're stuck with her x

I need some help guys I moved back home in March I was living and working in Leeds since 2013 which I loved but unfortunately I split up with my ex so has to leave my job with Leeds council.
When I moved back to my mums that's when I found out I was pregnant, my brothers ex girlfriend lives with my mum with my niece and her other 10 month old son. I'm honestly starting to get depressed the house is always noisey because of the kids she invites her step sisters over to stay without asking my mum her sisters are here for the weekend now. I feel like a stranger in my mums house. She has the spare room which I need for me and my unborn son. Me and my mum are taking it in turns to sleep on the sofa and the bed. I'm only working part time now so can not afford to get my own place plus I want to stay with my mum anyway as I will need her help. My mum is to nice to just tell her to go she has no intentions of leaving. I keep getting upset about it and crying it's horrible not being able to just relax! Any advice would be great X

Yes it is nice shame she's not the type of person I would want looking after my child.
That's the other problem she can't get any housing as she isn't a British citizen she's been having problems with her application for years.
I don't really know much about that side of things anyway! But it feels like we're stuck with her x