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I've finally got a girlfriend! Is this a bit odd?

So after a long time not in a relationship and chasing after girls with prior engagements I am in a relationship and have been for the last 3 weeks. She is about 7 years younger than me, I am 27 and she is 20. But we are brilliant together - we are so cute, always hugging and cuddling and holding hands. I think about her all the ****ing time!

I suggested to her that we could dress up as different things for a sense of fantasy in the bedroom. She was initially happy with the idea. I suggested things like 'secretary, hairdresser, maid, brexiter' - you know typical "sexy but silly" girl roles. She went absolutely mental and she has been stroppy with me ever since. She accused me of being sexist, but I don't feel like I was - these are the typical roles girls play in porn... You don't see them as lawyers or doctors or geothermal energy experts - do you? I was just trying to imitate that - I wasn't trying to be sexist or mean.

JllyGdShwMt

3 weeks in and you're already suggesting "sexy but silly" girl roles for some fantasy in the bedroom? Yeah good luck with that.

Reply 3

chikane

You forgot nurse on that list but you watch too much porn, you could have asked her what she wanted to dress as.

You need to apologise if it sounded like you were sexist or you will be single again for a while longer.

Reply 4

Withengar

No wonder you haven't been in a relationship for such a long time.

Reply 5

Cremated_Spatula

Could of been worse, you could of asked her to put on a sheep costume.

Reply 6

Plantagenet Crown

OP, you gave me a good laugh, 6/10.

Original post by Plantagenet Crown

OP, you gave me a good laugh, 6/10.

How

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MnWhCntBMvd

Original post by RDKGames

3 weeks in and you're already suggesting "sexy but silly" girl roles for some fantasy in the bedroom? Yeah good luck with that.

But we are very close and have a full sexual relationship. Also I felt because she is a bit younger than me, this kind of thing would be OK.

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username2130115

girls won't do that type of stuff for anybody.

Reply 11

username1514999

Original post by Plantagenet Crown

OP, you gave me a good laugh, 6/10.

I can see how she would find this sexist. Let her choose or abandon the idea. Ps just because she's young doesn't mean she's up for crazy stuff sexually, it's usually a very intimate sensitive thing for all ages.

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RDKGames

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Original post by MnWhCntBMvd

But we are very close and have a full sexual relationship. Also I felt because she is a bit younger than me, this kind of thing would be OK.

Very close yet you somehow managed to offend her with those suggestions...

You know most porn objectifies women, right? More so with those suggestions.

i died at 'brexiter'

With this level of cluelessness, I am obviously thinking troll, but just in case it's not...

CLUE: saying 'I am comparing you to women in porn' - which is what you're doing - is rarely a good idea.