I'm 23 and he's 20 - is it weird?

Reply 40

numbers18

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Original post by __0__

That is a tad weird mate

piss off you dumb piece of **** who has a mind produced by society and cant think for himself.

Reply 41

KristinaMaria

21

Original post by Anonymous

Would you think it weird if you knew a 23 year old girl dating a 20 year old guy? It's early days but I do really like him. I am self-conscious though about the fact I'm older... and how others are going to see it if we get into a relationship. A part of me is paranoid he might want me for lad points (because of my age).
So yeah - please be honest in your replies, and not just PC because you think you should.
Thanks

Not at all, I was 20 and my ex was almost 25 when we got together. We had a long and happy relationship that only ended because of the fact that we were so far apart in the end and we are still friends now. Age is simply a number and everyone acts differently, I know 18 year olds who are more mature than some 30 year olds and vice versa. If you like him, then it's worth a try! 😃

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Reply 42

username1177050

20

That seems alright as you are both pretty mature. There isn't as large a gap between those 2 ages as there is between 20 and 17 in regards to maturity for example. The 17 year old might be a bit more idealistic and full of emotion and sheltered compared to the 20 year old

Reply 43

TreeFellOnMe

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I think it's weird only if you think it is.

Reply 44

the bear

20

if you are in love then age is not important

Reply 45

mercuryman

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Original post by __0__

That is a tad weird mate

explains why he posted anonymous lol

Reply 46

fefssdf

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Original post by Anonymous

Would you think it weird if you knew a 23 year old girl dating a 20 year old guy? It's early days but I do really like him. I am self-conscious though about the fact I'm older... and how others are going to see it if we get into a relationship. A part of me is paranoid he might want me for lad points (because of my age).
So yeah - please be honest in your replies, and not just PC because you think you should.
Thanks

when I was in year 11 I was seeing someone who was in year 13 lol so yeh age is pretty irrelevant as long as you have that magic spark hahaha

Reply 47

Sacred Ground

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Original post by __0__

Half your age (23/2=11.5) plus seven (11.5+7=18.5) is the minimum non-creepy age you can date, so yes, 23 and 20 is absolutely fine

4/2 = 2+7 = 9 that's weird

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Reply 48

Andy98

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Original post by __0__

Half your age (23/2=11.5) plus seven (11.5+7=18.5) is the minimum non-creepy age you can date, so yes, 23 and 20 is absolutely fine

Amen to that

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Reply 49

bolly_mad

7

I think Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively have an age gap of 10 years or something, so you're probably fine.

Reply 50

Andy98

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Original post by Sacred Ground

4/2 = 2+7 = 9 that's weird

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A 4 year old wouldn't be dating. Relationships only really count once you hit 13 or 14

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Reply 51

Sufi4321

Nothing strange at all enjoy the journey of the relationship.

Reply 52

nadzworldz

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Original post by Anonymous

Would you think it weird if you knew a 23 year old girl dating a 20 year old guy? It's early days but I do really like him. I am self-conscious though about the fact I'm older... and how others are going to see it if we get into a relationship. A part of me is paranoid he might want me for lad points (because of my age).
So yeah - please be honest in your replies, and not just PC because you think you should.
Thanks

Hello

. I don't think it is weird at all and don't think it matters in any way as you like him! :smile:

I wouldn't worry about what others think and doubt they should think of anything negative. Try not to worry or feel paranoid and how does he feel about you (if you know)? :smile:

I'm 23 and he's 20 - is it weird?

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