my mum keeps all my student finance& job money- Can i do a transaction anonymously?

Hi everyone.. the title says it all.

Its because we are really struggling with paying the house and bills and a mortgage.

She's a single mum so i understand we need everything we can get to help make ends meet.

However, theres this bursary money that i won... and for once i want to keep that extra money to myself.

is there any way that once student loans drop next september ... i can quickly go take that money out for me and give the rest to my mum? without her finding out of course! if i take out that bursary money from the bank directly... will it show up on transactions? Any way of this not happening?

And please dont try convince me that i should talk to her about it... she will literally keep tabs of everything i buy or friends brays etc. so would rather not tell her. Awkward i know ;/

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Reply 1

Tiger Rag

22

Is there any reason (unless I've misunderstood) your money doesn't go in your own bank account?

Reply 2

subject1

18

I am pretty sure student finance is only paid into your account? i.e. the account holder's name must match application.

Reply 3

πr²

Yes, that is called internet banking.

Reply 4

SalazarSlytherin

19

Can't tell if troll or not

Reply 5

Desi123

1

It's illegal for her to do this you should have your own account and give her what you want

Reply 6

username1884577

19

OP surely you have to have your own bank account??

Reply 7

Honey:)

OP

9

i do have my own bank account but she keeps my card details and has my cards too!

I have signed up for internet banking... so that way i can quickly transfer my bursary money to myself, before she gets to the AGM machines.

Will this transfer show up? Any way of deleting it?*

Reply 8

Honey:)

OP

9

Original post by πr²

Yes, that is called internet banking.

With internet banking... is there any way i can transfer money from one account to another without it showing up in the mini statement?

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Reply 9

Tiger Rag

22

Original post by Honey:)

i do have my own bank account but she keeps my card details and has my cards too!

I have signed up for internet banking... so that way i can quickly transfer my bursary money to myself, before she gets to the AGM machines.

Will this transfer show up? Any way of deleting it?*

Cancel your card and get new ones. And get a new pin.

Reply 10

Jackieox

19

Original post by Honey:)

With internet banking... is there any way i can transfer money from one account to another without it showing up in the mini statement?

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No. It's always going to show up on the statements. You should get your own cards that she can't access

Reply 11

kpwxx

20

Original post by Honey:)

i do have my own bank account but she keeps my card details and has my cards too!

I have signed up for internet banking... so that way i can quickly transfer my bursary money to myself, before she gets to the AGM machines.

Will this transfer show up? Any way of deleting it?*

Did you know that this is against the banks rules? If you had any problems this could invalidate some of the protection (for example, if your card details got stolen, they might ask if anyone else has access to them and it could affect whether they'd give it back, or so I was told by my bank).

My advice would be to tell her you've just found out about this and think it's better to change the card and just have you know it, in case your card details get stolen.

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