Why is life so unfair?

I did see your previous thread btw. I do feel for you. We're the same boat but perhaps for different things..HMS sinking. But honestly, all women are like that so I have nex to no choice. Being horrid to them seems to be the best policy but I just feel that's a false economy. I feel cheap and dirty the one time I did do that. it didn't feel like me.

This thread is truly interesting. I have asked myself this many a time as to why good things sometimes do not happen to good people. Why did God not do this for me etc?? But i believe that everything happens for a reason. Everybody is destined to go down a particular path in life. Trials and tribulations will come, rejections, heartbreak, misery and loss. But then these things make you human and strengthen you physically and spiritually. I know some will disagree with this but I just believe that everyone has to wait for their time. Your good times will come hopefully.

Haha this has inspired me to do a new blog post on why good things do not happen to good people. Feel free to check out my blog thus far and share it with anyone else who might be interested. Just looking to inspire and empower people really.
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OP it's the same with females... seems like boys just want the badass popular females who are just *****y... boys don't seem to want the nice girls.
But then there are the right girls and the right boys out there who have some sense and will like the nice people in life.

Well in that case god has an awful sense of humour. Being held back 2 years for A levels..becoming depressed and comfort eating - becoming fat (3 and half stone up in 2 years). Prior to that being used a girl who I thought I could trust..ended up messing me about and toying with someone else. These aren't strengthing me. They're making me feel weak, embarrassed, depressed and supressed. Now in my 4th year I don't think i';l make my A level grades to go to a uni ranked number 50..hardly anything special. I don't see any 'good times' coming my way.
I have isolated myself and deactivated FB and any social networking sites and changed phone numbers because I couldn't deal with the shame of failure. I literally stopped all contact with my best friends who I've known closely for 8-10 years and as super close through college. My life is getting worse and worse..to top things off being a muslim- I am hated on by everyone in my white majority area (we're liberal- not the ISOC conservative types found on so called internet forums).
My religious beliefs are driving me insane.. my hormones are driving me insane. I'm hugely sexually frustrated and I cant do anything about it. To top things off I know when the time comes to marry probs 30 at this rate..i'll be married to some ex-party girl type who will literally ruin my life..abuse me and blow all my cash. Hardly a life to look forward to.

OP it's the same with females... seems like boys just want the badass popular females who are just *****y... boys don't seem to want the nice girls.
But then there are the right girls and the right boys out there who have some sense and will like the nice people in life.

Oh i'll tell you what I'm like. I'm the guy that wakes up at 5 AM so his mum doesn't have to walk to work. I'm the guy who helps his elderly neighbours as much as he can because their children are ungrateful and have left them to die. I'm the guy who loves his parents despite the abuse they give him. I'm the guy who works 5 days a week while at college so my parents don't have to suffer or support me.I'm that guy who will always be there to support people in rough times. I care about people and show as much love, generosity and affection that I can. I don't do these things for any gain..That's just who I am and who I've always been.

Omg. I'm in the same position as you. I got involved in the wrong things because of my ex boyfriend and he was always distracting me. He was controlling and possessive of me and was emotionally and physically abusive towards me which made me utterly depressed because I was so hell bent on making him happy so in turn I failed all my exams and now I'm repeating a year in school. It is honestly so depressing because all my friends are off to university and I am still stuck in school trying to get my grades and I have no friends left anymore because they've all gone to university

Obviously I had to leave my ex boyfriend which was the hardest thing and scariest thing in the world for me to do but now that I have left him, even though it doesn't seem like much but my life has actually improved. I finally got a part time job, something my boyfriend wouldn't have let me do and I'm earning money and becoming more independant. I've got my friends and family back (i became isolated from everybody because of him and the fact that I'm Muslim also made things worse) and I've stopped doing bad things. And most importantly my exams actually feel like they went well. What I'm trying to say is just hang in there and things will improve and you will be glad things happened the way they happened. It all takes time. Honestly, just hang in there. I promise.

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Why not just change to a different religion then? I'm assuming you're just currently following the one that your parents followed?

Hey at least you're not France, losing the Euro 2016 final, on your own soil

You make me laugh