I can't move on?

any luck yet?

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Forgive me but it seems like you may have personal difficulties that extend way beyond your former connection with this person. Work on those

This is how your heart feels. You will never truly love anyone else, even after he dies. Your soul is connected to His, forever.

I really think you should talk to someone about this. If I've read correctly, you haven't told anyone in your life about how bad you feel. Keeping something so distressing locked up will not help.

Aside from that, I think you should completely cut him out of your life (expecially if you can see what he's up to via social media and what not).

Focus on on your own life and just keep busy no matter what, do things that make you feel better. And please, talk to someone about this, you don't have to keep it all inside. Time has been a healer for me for various traumatic events (it took me a good few years just to try and come to terms with a death in the family). The pain never goes, but it does get easier to cope with it in time, particularly if you can surround yourself with loved ones (or even a therapist).

I hope you feel better.

..to include, growing up/showing respect where it is due

I really think you should talk to someone about this. If I've read correctly, you haven't told anyone in your life about how bad you feel. Keeping something so distressing locked up will not help.

Aside from that, I think you should completely cut him out of your life (expecially if you can see what he's up to via social media and what not).

Focus on on your own life and just keep busy no matter what, do things that make you feel better. And please, talk to someone about this, you don't have to keep it all inside. Time has been a healer for me for various traumatic events (it took me a good few years just to try and come to terms with a death in the family). The pain never goes, but it does get easier to cope with it in time, particularly if you can surround yourself with loved ones (or even a therapist).

I hope you feel better.

You weren't even in a relationship with him. If he wanted anything with you, he would've pursued it himself but he didn't. He's now married to the mother of his child whom he sees as special, something he never saw you. So as harsh as this sounds, you need to get over it and get on with your own life because this is not only sad but borderline obsessive and creepy.

You weren't even in a relationship with him. If he wanted anything with you, he would've pursued it himself but he didn't. He's now married to the mother of his child whom he sees as special, something he never saw you. So as harsh as this sounds, you need to get over it and get on with your own life because this is not only sad but borderline obsessive and creepy.

Do you think making yourself anonymous gives you license to call me obsessive and creepy? Thats out of order.

Seriously though anon- phone him up and give it a go!

Sigh

He isn't missing out.

Lol brutal. But still, I can see OP is a little unstable but honestly OP if there is no scope and your morals are strong enough that you don't have to commit adultery, what are you going to do? You don't want to move on..and you don't want to commit to him..So whats the next resort? I say go to singles night or speed dating or something..You're bound to find his replacement and he will be a distant memory.

I'm not unstable. The people on here are driving me mad.
What do you mean I won't commit to him? Do you seriously think that's an option now? He doesn't even like me , never did never will.
Im never dating again, I'm celibate now and it's for the best.

Looks like this thread is going around in circles. The OP has 2 choices, move on and find someone else or still focus on him. *

no one's really told me how to move on though, i've just received a lot of insults on here.