Girls what is your impression of Men's standard of dress these day?

How is liking different things ever irrelevant? Everyone has a right to judge and saying otherwise makes very little sense. If you dress however you want then it means you don't care about how you might be judged by it.

Good for you; I wear a shirt/t shirt and jeans too, but I also understand that some people prefer other sorts of styles. I don't particularly care as I don't intend to play off of my fashion sense but rather myself as a person ...

As for your last paragraph, I'm pretty sure we weren't talking about people not liking someone's outfit and going up to them to chastise them about bad taste ..

Ok, so not talking about business suites or work wear but out and about in public, free times, relaxation/leisure, etc. Not necessarily meaning expecting all guys to wear formal shirts and stuff like that either, it can be, but also on casual wear. Late teens and twenties & thirties kind of age group.

Which is the point: I shouldn't have to be judged for wearing whatever I want to wear just because someone else might disapprove of a choice I've made that doesn't affect them in the slightest.



Seeing as we seem to be on the same page here, I can assume that you'd be slightly peeved if someone disregarded you as a person but chose to judge you based solely on what you were wearing, yes?



I took it to an extreme, but the base point remains: OP was asking for someone else's impression of my clothing choice. Well, quite frankly, their impression of my clothing choice is irrelevant for the two reasons that I gave in my first post in the thread.

And seeing as their impression is irrelevant seeing as, as stated above, it doesn't affect them in the slightest, then why does that make it ok for people to judge other people on what they're wearing?

Or, more to the point, why should I care about what other people think regarding my clothing choice? I shouldn't. And because I don't care about it, and because it's irrelevant to them (and it is irrelevant to them; my body, my clothes, my choice. Doesn't affect them, etc) then what gives people the right to judge?

Ergo, someone else's impression of what I'm wearing, or in this case, the social standard which I'm being measured up against, is entirely irrelevant.

Tl;dr: Just because someone else prefers a different style it doesn't mean they should judge me for not fitting in with their ideal of what I "should" be wearing.

I realise I'm sort of making a mountain out of a molehill here, but the underlying issue (one of judging people based upon their clothing choices, or in other words, judging someone on something superficial instead of looking at them as a person) is a rather important one.

Not kawaii enough.

On a more serious side, i generally don't care as long as their underwear isn't showing.

I thought that society judging people on such things was phased out during the '50s.

At the end of the day, I'll wear something for two reasons:
- I like it.
- It's comfy.

Unless you're playing a game (socially or literally), there is no reason to wear anything other than the above two.

Why would one time period be that much different to another in terms of how women think? Wouldn't they think similar in any era. So say clothing today replacing the shiny armour of the medieval times and the car replacing the horse? If women do put such significance on clothing (and their own clothes shopping being point in case) then its valid for us men to consider it perhaps.

The worst is girls going out in 'Onesies' god awful, serious lack of any clue about fashion sense and visual self.

I like smart casual/preppy on men. Cream and burgundy chinos, blazers, jumpers, brogues, loafers etc.