I'm a sugar baby AMA

Basically I'm bored and lately I've seen people talking about being SB or an escort so I figured what the hell. I'm a sugar baby (even tho I hate that 'title' ) and I quite enjoy it. So anyone curious about it, ask me anything.

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Reply 1

*Thedreaming*

How did u find your sponsor?

Reply 2

junayd1998

Original post by Anonymous

There is nothing to ask.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Original post by *Thedreaming*

How did u find your sponsor?

There are a few different websites that you can find online for people who are specifically interested in those kind of arrangements.

Reply 4

*Thedreaming*

Original post by Anonymous

There are a few different websites that you can find online for people who are specifically interested in those kind of arrangements.

kudos for finding someone legit on them, cos it's mostly salt on there

Original post by *Thedreaming*

kudos for finding someone legit on them, cos it's mostly salt on there

You learn to sift through the fakes and the weirdos pretty easily

Reply 7

Allie4

I've been contemplating it myself for a while, heck why not, better than dating broke-ass idiots who'll end up breaking up with me at some point anyways. if you really are a SB how much are you making a week. you do get an income from them right? how much sex is involved and what do you look like. GO!

Reply 8

Anonymous #2

How much money on average do you get paid? And is it per session? Weekly? etc

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

Original post by Allie4

Original post by Anonymous

How much money on average do you get paid? And is it per session? Weekly? etc

I'm not going to say how I look for privacy reasons but I'm pretty average, have a few extra pounds so not really skinny or really fat.Sex is usually expected, you can obviously avoid it the first few meetings as you need to see if it's going to go anywhere but after that sex is usual. Which means unless you can enjoy casual sex, better don't do it. For the amount I get it varies by the guy, you usually negotiate it before or during the first meeting. Most guys will do by hour or meeting. I prefer to do it by meeting as I quite enjoy the company and if you do it by hour they tend to rush it so that they only have to pay for one. And if you do it by meeting you can put up the price too and they will pay it even if you only spend 15min together. It's all up to preference. If you stay with one guy longer, you may agree to change it to a monthly allowance or similar.I get offers anywhere from £40 to about £200 a meeting, more if it's a particularly rich guy and not just one with a good job. I usually go for about £100 but if they offer more, I'll take more. They also pay for dinner and some like taking the girls shopping so they pay for everything you pick out too as long as they approve how it looks.

Reply 10

Anonymous #3

Is that like a prostitute trying to sound classy? I suppose if you lose your dignity and ambition its always an option to sell your body to desperate seedy men lol..

Reply 11

Memz95

Original post by Allie4

better than dating broke-ass idiots who'll end up breaking up with me at some point anyways

I find this rather upsetting, I really do hope you find someone that changes that mentality of yours. Not saying its a bad thing, but what you said seems to carry a lot of hurt with it, that's what I find upsetting.

Reply 12

sugarflower

Original post by Anonymous

Is that like a prostitute trying to sound classy? I suppose if you lose your dignity and ambition its always an option to sell your body to desperate seedy men lol..

I admit, being a sugar baby is a form of sex work at the end of the day (a service that would not exist without a demand for it). It's probably seen as more softcore compared to other jobs.

But once you find the right man/woman, the benefits are great! :h:

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

Is that like a prostitute trying to sound classy? I suppose if you lose your dignity and ambition its always an option to sell your body to desperate seedy men lol..

Call it what you want. For me it's no different to sleeping with random guys you may meet at a club, even better really. Prostitution is more like having sex with anyone who will pay. Being SB you pick the guys out yourself. I was always more attracted to older men. Sure some are the stereotypical ugly grandpa types but some are attractive men. Then you also pick out by interests. Most want company and sex is just a thing included, so you only continue the meetings with someone you enjoy spending the time with. It's more like dating if you find the right guy. For example, I have one that we can name Tom. So Tom and I chat on WhatsApp quite often, especially when he's bored at work, just about random things you would talk about with friends. Tom is also working in the same industry as I am aiming for so he acts like a mentor whenever I need it, giving advice from his experience. We meet up about once a week, he comes over, picks me up, we go out, have a nice dinner and chat. Sometimes it ends there, more often we go back to my place and have sex. Truthfully, he's pretty hot and knows exactly what to do.

Reply 14

Betelgeuse-

So how much are you selling yourself per time? As a guy, how much is each act of intercourse costing him?

Reply 15

Devify

Do your friends know about you doing that? What do they think?

Reply 16

Anonymous #3

Original post by Anonymous

Lol very romantic... Do you think you'll ever settle for one guy and have a proper relationship? Or would you prefer to live that lifestyle of no strings being used by guys for the foreseeable future? How old are you?

Reply 17

Anonymous #1

Original post by Betelgeuse-

So how much are you selling yourself per time? As a guy, how much is each act of intercourse costing him?

I already explained this. Sometimes it's just company for the dinner that they pay for too so it's more complicated than charging by sexual act

Reply 18

Anonymous #1

Original post by Devify

Do your friends know about you doing that? What do they think?

Most of my friends know, I tell them when I'm meeting someone new just in case so that they can check up on me and make sure I'm fine. They're all fine with it, we joke about it sometimes and they tease me, but they see my point of view and are fine with it.

Reply 19

Anonymous #1

I quite like him so there's no set amount between us at the moment. He gives what he wants, usually what he has left over in cash from us going out. I usually get £60-£160 in cash. Usually more around £100-£120. I think he spends about £150-£200 per night depending on what we decide to do.