Are you currently in a relationship?

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Are you currently in a relationship?

Simple yay or nay! :h:

If you are then what do you enjoy about being in one?

On the other hand, if you are single then what do you enjoy about that?

Have you ever felt like you've had to be in a relationship? Like there was expectation on you to be in one?

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Reply 1

Davalla

You post lots of threads.

nay

Guess.

The feeling of being loved. :love:

It gives me a lovely sense of security.

Noo lol

Original post by Davalla

You post lots of threads.

'tis my job :u:

Reply 7

Platopus

Original post by PugDevil

Simple yay or nay! :h:

I'm a single Pringle and perfectly happy. I've felt social pressure to be in one, but I don't think I've ever genuinely wanted a parter. Maybe some time in the future, but not right now.

Reply 8

eden3

No. Never have. Never will.

Reply 9

PugDevil

Original post by Platopus

I'm a single Pringle and perfectly happy. I've felt social pressure to be in one, but I don't think I've ever genuinely wanted a parter. Maybe some time in the future, but not right now.

Yeah that is fair enough - I feel as though it is something that should always be your call. There are pros and cons to being in and out of a relationship. It should be based on purely what you're happy with :biggrin:

Reply 10

PugDevil

Original post by eden3

No. Never have. Never will.

And why is that? :frown:

(Don't worry about replying if you think I'm being too nosy! Apologies if I am :smile:

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Original post by eden3

No. Never have. Never will.

Lmfao man you make me laugh so much.

Reply 13

eden3

Original post by PugDevil

And why is that? :frown:

(Don't worry about replying if you think I'm being too nosy! Apologies if I am :smile:

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No that's okay. :smile:

It's not by choice, it's because of my looks... I know they say looks aren't everything but I find that extremely hard to believe considering how I look and the rejections I've had. I guess people like myself just weren't cut out for dating.

Original post by xobeauty

Lmfao man you make me laugh so much.

I'm glad I can make you laugh, although I was actually being serious this time haha.

Reply 14

PugDevil

Original post by eden3

No that's okay. :smile:

Although it is a cliche, most cliches have truth to them - never say never. You will find someone out there that you will be happy with! Rejections are never nice but try and think that it is their loss and move on. I promise you, just keep trying and you'll find someone :smile:

Reply 15

drowzee

Yes for 6 months now :love:

Reply 16

MonsoonFlower

Original post by PugDevil

Simple yay or nay! :h:

Yes and we are both extremely happy in it. :smile:

Reply 17

Siberiaan

Original post by eden3

No that's okay. :smile:

I'm glad I can make you laugh, although I was actually being serious this time haha.

Nah your prolly decent looking , up the confidence game and it should be easy.

Reply 18

PugDevil

Original post by drowzee

Yes for 6 months now :love:

Congrats!

Before you know it, it'll be a year :tongue:

Do you reckon you'll do something special to celebrate?

Reply 19

Rum Ham

Been in one for the last 7 and a half years :h:

first and only relationship for either of us. My favourite thing about being in a relationship is having someone who is on the same wavelength as me and that I can be totally open with, have a laugh with and knowing that even when they have seen me at my worst, they still love me and see the good in me and the relationship.

There was no expectation for us to get together or be in a relationship. We were best friends before we started going out so friendship is what everyone expected but it developed and I'm glad it did :smile: