Ok so you want to spend money has you feel you have enough/too much, you want to meet people with the hope of a real connection. let's start by saying both are totally unrelated you are the living proof of that. we can easily set you up to do work that makes a difference in people lives which can only generate connections. do not worry about your looks that doesn't even count, it just takes one and a state of mind that will develop you. so many people are the opposite (no money) and they feel they need it, they feel at a disadvantage assuming someone like you has an advantage. there are so many avenues to explore, you just didn't find yours yet, spending "a lot of" money or going clubbing is certainly not the way forward, generating adventure going out of your way by just enjoying the world to start with that can only grow you make you more interesting through experiences.