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Revenge: Should I feel bad?

So my ex cheated on me with my cousin. I didn't feel anything at the time but later on I decided I would get revenge.

By using the nudes he had sent me and other pics, I made him a grindr account (he's straight). I put his number on there too and told other guys that he (I technically) was looking for sex and would love to be sent dick pics. His phone is now constant bombarded with the aforementioned, and after 2 weeks of it, he is now getting a new number. It was quite hilarious, he would get calls constantly.
I also put his number and email on all sorts of fetish sites, and once at work when he opened the wrong email during a presentation at his work, it was one of the fetish emails and it was a very graphic poo fetish one, on top of the embarrassment, he was fired and 2 weeks later his dog (that he had for 13 years) had died.

Should I feel bad? I don't feel bad at all. Cross me and you get ****ed.

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Reply 1
His dog died because he got fired from work? Sounds a bit extreme..
Original post by Anonymous
So my ex cheated on me with my cousin. I didn't feel anything at the time but later on I decided I would get revenge.

By using the nudes he had sent me and other pics, I made him a grindr account (he's straight). I put his number on there too and told other guys that he (I technically) was looking for sex and would love to be sent dick pics. His phone is now constant bombarded with the aforementioned, and after 2 weeks of it, he is now getting a new number. It was quite hilarious, he would get calls constantly.
I also put his number and email on all sorts of fetish sites, and once at work when he opened the wrong email during a presentation at his work, it was one of the fetish emails and it was a very graphic poo fetish one, on top of the embarrassment, he was fired and 2 weeks later his dog (that he had for 13 years) had died.

Should I feel bad? I don't feel bad at all. Cross me and you get ****ed.


Wow! Now that is some scandal!! :wink: You shouldn't feel bad at all! I swear if I was friends with you in real life, it would've been SO hilarious to watch him crumble! I would've done something like that, if I ever broke up with someone, lmao.
Reply 3
Original post by UWS
His dog died because he got fired from work? Sounds a bit extreme..


No, totally separate.

Original post by cucumberhater
Wow! Now that is some scandal!! :wink: You shouldn't feel bad at all! I swear if I was friends with you in real life, it would've been SO hilarious to watch him crumble! I would've done something like that, if I ever broke up with someone, lmao.


I feel so evil...:devil:
Original post by Anonymous
No, totally separate.



I feel so evil...:devil:


What if he clicks on that it was you who set him up? omg :u:
Sounds perfectly reasonable... (Heil Satan!)
Reply 6
I mean, I don't advocate an eye for an eye but at the same time...lol.
Reply 7
Original post by cucumberhater
What if he clicks on that it was you who set him up? omg :u:


I told no-one. :colonhash:
Reply 8
He lost his livelihood because of your stupid revenge plan and you don't feel bad? Wtf? How does him cheating even deserve that as well? Jesus Christ.
Reply 9
Original post by Gnat
He lost his livelihood because of your stupid revenge plan and you don't feel bad? Wtf? How does him cheating even deserve that as well? Jesus Christ.


It was year in industry thing, chillax.
Reply 10
That was a great move. You have genuinely made my day.:rofl2:
It really makes a change from the guy posting 'revenge porn'. :smile:
Reply 11
Original post by Anonymous
So my ex cheated on me with my cousin. I didn't feel anything at the time but later on I decided I would get revenge.

By using the nudes he had sent me and other pics, I made him a grindr account (he's straight). I put his number on there too and told other guys that he (I technically) was looking for sex and would love to be sent dick pics. His phone is now constant bombarded with the aforementioned, and after 2 weeks of it, he is now getting a new number. It was quite hilarious, he would get calls constantly.
I also put his number and email on all sorts of fetish sites, and once at work when he opened the wrong email during a presentation at his work, it was one of the fetish emails and it was a very graphic poo fetish one, on top of the embarrassment, he was fired and 2 weeks later his dog (that he had for 13 years) had died.

Should I feel bad? I don't feel bad at all. Cross me and you get ****ed.



I believe it may be a criminal offence now to display intimate images of someone without their consent.

you better hope he doesn't work out it was you.

you could do jail time.

im serious.

http://www.cps.gov.uk/news/latest_news/prosecutors_being_advised_to_learn_from_revenge_porn_cases/
Reply 12
Original post by Anonymous
It was year in industry thing, chillax.


Yeah but he will have to find another place to work now right? And he might have to explain why he was fired.

You really should feel a bit bad about this tbh :/
Reply 13
Original post by Anonymous
I'm a woman so I'm sure if I cry and **** I'll be fine, probably just get a warning. :rofl:


no offence but your bf must be really stupid to not know it's you.

The first thing I would do if I was getting these messages is ask them why are they calling me/sending me these messages. Sooner or later one of them is going to reveal the grinder site, ..and then i will ask for a link to the profile.

from the profile pics your bf should be able to work out it was you, as he likely only sent the pics to you.

ps: you better hope you are right about not getting sentenced, imo you are taking a gamble. If a similar event happens in the future find some other way to get back at him than leaking intimate pics.
Original post by ANM775
no offence but your bf must be really stupid to not know it's you.

The first thing I would do if I was getting these messages is ask them why are they calling me/sending me these messages. Sooner or later one of them is going to reveal the grinder site, ..and then i will ask for a link to the profile.

from the profile pics your bf should be able to work out it was you, as he likely only sent the pics to you.

ps: you better hope you are right about not getting sentenced, imo you are taking a gamble. If a similar event happens in the future find some other way to get back at him than leaking intimate pics.


I'm not dumb. I deleted most pics and left one (his whatsapp dp) after a couple days, and now that he's getting a new number I deleted the account.

Tbh, I'd do it again. Like drugs, you know (except I didn't know that I broke a law by doing this :colondollar:) it's illegal but you'll still do it again.
What did you do to your cousin then?
So he sent nudes of your girlfriend to you? The grindr thing was fair game, getting him fired was maybe too far. However that wasn't the plan, it happened because he opened an email at the wrong time.

Kinda went too far by bad luck, but I guess the grindr and fetish stuff was fair by itself and pretty funny haha
Original post by AndrewSCO
So he sent nudes of your girlfriend to you? The grindr thing was fair game, getting him fired was maybe too far. However that wasn't the plan, it happened because he opened an email at the wrong time.

Kinda went too far by bad luck, but I guess the grindr and fetish stuff was fair by itself and pretty funny haha


No, we dated and he sent me nudes and I used those to make the grindr.

Original post by SuperHuman98
What did you do to your cousin then?


Still thinking. I want to cook up something really special for her.
Original post by Anonymous
No, we dated and he sent me nudes and I used those to make the grindr.



Still thinking. I want to cook up something really special for her.


Oh wait so you're a girl and he's a guy, and your cousin is a girl. Got it now, I thought it was all reversed, and that your cousin slept with your gf then sent you pics of him doing it....

But it's pics of your bf got it.
wow, we should be friends

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